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Hi, have never been in this particular part of the forums before. I want two babies close together as its just what i want blah blah thought alot about it and stuff. So didn't take any contraception after my little one was born 8 months ago, and I still haven't fell pregnant. It's not that I'm desperate for a baby I'm just scared I can't have kids again?? Am i weird?? I believe that when a baby does come its meant to be and theres no such thing as the wrong time. I'm in a good settled home and can afford another baby and feel strong enough to cope, I'm not particulary trying but when it happens I'll gracefully accept it but every month when my period comes I just get that bit more worried that I'm infertile. Ieven though I've had a baby I know there can be secondry problems. I might be being abit extreme is anyone else experiencing the same type of thing? will be nice to hear from other people. thanks, mand xx
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i don't think you are bad as you obviously do want this!! I can't say i have been through the same as i am trying for my 1st, but I can understand how frustrated you must be!! I am sure it will all be fine though!! Don't forget lots of factors can influence it all - stress etc etc.
Good luck and share it all with us!!
Depending on your age, why not pop in to see your doc or nurse and voice your concerns?
Good luck!
I'm having a similar thing as are many on this forum. We decided to to try for #1 and I fell pg first try, now 3yrs later we're trying for #2 and I'm on month 7 with not even a sniff of a bfp.
I've talked to my doc and he said after 30 (i'm 32) there is only a 15-20% chance each month. So it's better to time your bd'ing to get the maximum chance each month.
You're not still breastfeeding are you? max xxx
hope you feel well soon, sending you sticky babydust xxx
I'm just starting TTC my second and I keep worrying that we won't manage it. I have NO evidence to support this at all, but it keeps popping into my head and freaking me out. I would also just like to know that we CAN do it (my oh has never fathered a child) then I can relax and just enjoy it.