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Why arnt we all pregnant yet?
Ok so we know how to work out when we ov, we check for ewcm, check position of cervix, take temp, poas and yet we still get a bfn at the end of it!!! Whats going on?? xx
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I think for me personally, its because I need to lose weight.
I'm definitely ovulating each month and have regular periods (if a little bit on the short cycle side).
I think it must just be taking time or I need to lose weight! Which I am trying hard to do - I really am!
I was chatting to my brother the other day - he said it took 2yrs to conceive his first child which they believe was because of his wifes age and the fact she'd been on the pill for so long. Their 2nd child was conceived instantly! He told me and hubby to relax - he actually said "its not a pizza delivery you know"!!!
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there really is no control on how to get it out your system!!!
My friend tried as you lot are to concieve for 24 months had tests done docs said nothing was wrong etc, her Dad passed away suddenly and her mind change from ttc obviously, she was pregnant the next month. Then pregnant with baby number two straight away after.
My Mums friend was ttc concieve (quite some years ago) for so long that they ended up adopting a little girl, a couple of months after the little girl moved in she found out she was pregnant.
Sometimes relaxation on a subject really can help, maybe you guys should try the just for fun approach for a month and see what happens? from an outsider looking in you guys really put a lot of pressure on yourselves. (hope that doesnt offend anyone)
Good luck, relax and I hope you all get what your wishing for soon x
Each time I came off it, my periods regulated straight away - but for a lot of you other ladies, it seems to take ages to get out of your system.
Why do our bodies do this???!!!