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Does it get any easier?
Hiya Kyla
[Modified by: james06 on June 21, 2007 09:25 AM]
[Modified by: james06 on June 21, 2007 09:25 AM]
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I'm new to this site, so I hope you don't mind me venting.
DH and myself married in March, and since then we've been ttc like crazed mad people. I have a child from a previous relationship (aged 7, the light of my life), and he was a complete surprise (his Dad told me he was sterile from cancer drugs - turns out they'd got that slightly wrong! although I wouldn't change my boy for the world)
Now dh and I are actively trying, I'm finding it so frustrating. I know there are people on this site who have been ttc much longer than us, and are still trying, my question is, does it get any easier? Why did i find it so inexplicably easy to get pg to a "sterile" man, and now when I want to get pg, I can't?
I really thought that this month would be the one for us. We have bd'd more than ever, and we've used the ov kits too, so we know we're doing it at the optimum time.
My (.)(.) have been really sore, and my complexion has changed (I look bloody awful) , and I just feel so crap - I was really hoping that these were signs.
Anyway, I did one of those first response early tester kits this morning (AF due friday) and it was negative. The body is so cruel - I really thought that we'd done it cos I felt so bad. I know our bodies can play tricks on us when there's something we really want - but that's just mother nature being a bitch!
The 2ww was agonising enough, but the BFN this morning was devastating.
Does it get better?
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Good luck & sending lots of babydust your direction xx
I heard those early tests were really good though - is that wrong? Ooh, I'm getting my hopes up again, that's not good
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You'll get there!!!
Babydust
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It will happen for you one day hun, good luck x x x
unfortunatley it doesnt get any easier as the girls say its not over till the ugly witch rears her head.
Dont get to disheartened you go pregnant before and you will again unfortulately when you want something so badly it takes longer!
goodluck jen xx