Pregnancy after 1 MC? Need some positive stories! x
Hi there,
Just had a mmc and DH and I want to try again asap (prob after 1 cycle).....
Have any of you fallen pregnant after a MC...how soon? How did you cope with worrying that the same thing might happen again?
Any positive stories would be greatly appreciated! In need of a ray of hope!
Thanks
Frankie x
[Modified by: Frankie5 on 02 June 2008 09:35:33 ]
Just had a mmc and DH and I want to try again asap (prob after 1 cycle).....
Have any of you fallen pregnant after a MC...how soon? How did you cope with worrying that the same thing might happen again?
Any positive stories would be greatly appreciated! In need of a ray of hope!
Thanks
Frankie x
[Modified by: Frankie5 on 02 June 2008 09:35:33 ]
0
Replies
Thanks for your reply.
So happy for you that you have a healthy little baby on the way, seeing your baby moving about on scan must have been so amazing x
Yes, I will try to keep positive when we try again.....
I like your way of thinking, it is comforting to hear about how you have coped with everything.
Best wishes
Frankie xx
So pleased to hear abot your lo!
33 weeks...you must be getting really excited!
Thank you so much for your positive story. It is comforting.
Frankie x
So sorry to hear your news, i too had a mmc and found out at 12 wk scan. This was in January. We started trying straight away after. I had 1 af 39 days after ERPC and the next month i fell pg. I am now 14 weeks and so far so good. Hope this gives you a bit of hope.
Good luck Poppy x
I had my 2nd mmc in June last year but didn't pass everything until July. I waited to have one normal period and then started trying. Got pg after one month (conceived September) so not long at all. Apparently you are more fertile after mc for some reason.
Good luck honey - I'm now 38+ and having my baby on Wednesday by section, so it is very possible!
Karenxx
2 days to go
Anyway am now 23+4 and all going well.
Try to relax and not worry about it to much. It sounds trite but the positive is that you know you can fall pregnant. Your body will decide when you're ready again. Good luck. S x
Thank you all so much for sharing your stories.....It has helped so much to hear about your healthy pregnancies! It made me cry with tears of joy rather than sadness for once! Going through this mc is the worst thing I have ever had to contend with.....
Karen, good luck! I am so excited for you! x
Claire and Poppy, I look forward to hearing about how you are coming along over the next few months too.
Thanks so much.
F x
Good luck hun and i really hope it goes ok for you. Take care
Filo x
Another to add to the list of positive stories!
l had a mc in dec 07 & found it an incredibly difficult experience. l had one af 28 days later in jan & found out l was pg again in feb. l am now 21wks + 4 & all is well. Falling pg again so quickly was wonderful but l have to admit it was difficult as l was still grieving for the first baby in the first few weeks of this pregnancy, so it did initially get in the way of bonding with my baby.
Personally my advice would be to allow yourself time to deal with how the mc made you feel, because doing this while you are "supposed" to be happy about being pg is a very confusing place to be & made me feel very guilty about my feelings towards my second pregnancy. Everyone is different though & some girls find it very comforting to be pg again, which of course is perfectly ok. l'm just telling you my experience.
l must add though that l have dealt with these feeling alot over the last few weeks & l'm now feeling very happy about this pregnancy & bonding well with my baby esp as he/she is starting to kick me lots in the last couple of weeks!
l wish you all the best!
Anna x
Thank you all for your stories. It has really helped me look to the future and realise that it is not all doom and gloom.
Good luck to all of you pg ladies....I looked forward to reading about your new arrivals!
Frankie x
[Modified by: Frankie5 on June 03, 2008 11:51 AM]