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why do people keep asking!!!!!!!!!!
hi guys sorry for the rant but.......
since i have got married everyone asks if we are going to have kids whens the pitter patter etc and i just feel like say i KNOW im not woman enough to get pregnant so bloody sue me
sorry had 3 ppl today decide to ask me and i feel like screaming me
does anyone else get this?
since i have got married everyone asks if we are going to have kids whens the pitter patter etc and i just feel like say i KNOW im not woman enough to get pregnant so bloody sue me
sorry had 3 ppl today decide to ask me and i feel like screaming me
does anyone else get this?
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sending you hugs xx
Rant away hun, I understand how you feel, and agree with you. xx
It's bad enough I have to watch her coo over my bf newborn without ppl making out like i'm being mean to her.
I feel like shouting I WOULD LOVE TO BE PG BUT I'M NOT OK
I wish i had it in me to make them feel as uncomfortable as they make me feel. But i don't I just smile and say i'm not ready for another.
I've been invited by some mums who's lo's are starting preschool at the same time as my lo to meet and let the kids get to know each other before they start in sept but the other mums are all either pg or got a newborn.
It makes me feel so inadequate : (
I dont want any of them to know i am trying but when they keep saying 'your little one needs a brother or sister' i wanna scream "just give me a flipping minute - i'm trying to!!!!!"
my lo is 2 1/2 as well and I was an only child and I so don't want her growing up like i did. I had friends ok but still spent alot of time on my own or with adults. I don't want the same for her.It also means i only have my mum and dad in my family and when they're gone it'll be only me. I thought i'd have 3 or 4 kids but I'm struggling for #2
It just hurts even more when ppl point out to me what I already know. It really knocks out my stuffing for a while.
sorry i'm so emotional today I had a bfn this morning
they think i should have a wee girl so i can have a flower girl at my wedding!!!! how rude cause you know thats the only reason i should have a baby!!!
well the jokes on them as we are going to get married in floirda and not tell any one so they can't follow us!! lol!! that will teach them to pressure me!!!
Like the other day, when I had a hangover, someone asked if I was queasy because of morning sickness. I wanted to scream at them the reason I'd got drunk was to drown my sorrows after a BFN!
So insensitive.
If you say "as soon as we can" the a**hole asker doesn't know if you are or aren't trying cos you could mean as soon as we've got a new carpet or something or you could mean as soon as the sun the moon the stars oh and the sperm and the egg are all in the right bloody place then we'll have a baby!!!
I love it, i might start getting some carpet brochures to leave on the coffe table.
Maxi xxx
Bexy, Babybump4 and girlinleeds, I can't imagine how heartbreaking this question must be if you've miscarried. I would gladly shoot those people for you for asking you this when it must be the hardest thing to deal with already