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ARSE! we have just had a bit of a to do in or house coz my oh washed up and then my dad gave me a funny look so i pointed out that ide already done it today from last night coz oh forgot so why should i do it again? dad then said because we have been at work all day and i said so do i ask you to do your job when you get home and dad said no coz thats our job! the cheeky twat! like looking after a baby and doing house work and washing all day isnt a job! and critisising what i do all day is really gonna help my pnd right now! why are men such dicks! they think coz they go out to work that they are superioir, they forgot i had and do still have a job and worked bloody hard at it! grrrrrr! sorry to rant but had to vent! hope that all made sence! xxx
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Caz x x
tell your dad to but out, and if he wants to be you for a day let him!!
Then I had a phonecall. It was OH. I answered the phone and could hear Max crying in the backround. "Are you coming home soon?"
When I eventually got home, Max was in his cot alone in our room, absolutely screaming his head off, tears rolling down his face, going red, you know. And OH was on the computer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I could have killed him!! :x
Men!!!!!
I guess fair enough, men are better at other things and women are naturally better at looking after babies but its not always about looking after LO.
What annoys me is he doesn't do anything!! Not just with max but generally around the flat. Even things men traditionally do, like taking out the rubbish for eg. Thats what winds me up. I do all the housework (and I mean ALL the housework!!), cook max's meals and feed them to him, and still find time to play with him and take him out.
There are 3 states marcus can be in; asleep, at work, on the computer. thats it!
My oh is good around the house, he does help out and cooks 80% of the time. Just he can't multi task and have baby as well as do the house work. Even when baby is sleeping he could just about manage to get something out the freezer for dinner and hang out the washing. LoL.
But when you've got washing to take out of the machine, a pile of ironing to do, dishes in the sink and LO is hungry its a different matter, especially when its everyday for 6 months!! And OH sits on his arse, and will occasionally ask "makin a cuppa?" whenever i go in the kitchen
You know, sometimes I genuinely think he's actually taking the piss out of me. :x