TMI for husbands???
I am beginning to get really hacked off with my husband as although he wants another child he does NOT want to know when i am ovulating, or about my cycle, or when af is coming or about CM or even when i will take pg test. He thinks i should just forget about it, and have lots of sex and when i start throwing up, maybe doa pregnancy test!!!! I know that he may not want to know too much about CM and i dont really want to talk about that with him anyway but i really wish he would take a more active role in the process. I am beginning to think that he has only agreed to another child so that we can have sex reasonably frequently! I feel like i am doing it all on my own. How much participation do you all get from your oh's (apart from the obvious ha ha ha!)?
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Caz
13 days to go wohooooooo
Have you talked to him about how you feel? On the one hand, I can understand that he doesn't want to feel like he's just providing the semen, but it does sound like it wouldn't hurt for him to get a bit more involved. On the other hand, if you're not in a desperate hurry to conceive, why not just have a relaxed attitude to it for at least a few months? If you still haven't conceived then, it might be time to start making a bit more effort.
Sounds like you got very involved with ttc anon!
My oh isnt interested to hear about all the details as he just likes to 'see what happens' and BD. He even said to me he doesnt want to hear any symptoms I may be getting as he doesnt want to get his hopes up! (every month we get our hopes up then BFN) ttc 8 months now. xxx
I never said I didn't enjoy the increase in BD, and I might have suggested that "honey, just in case..." and "better safe than sorry"
Fiona, if you've been trying for 8 months, it probably is about time for him to get more involved.