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Hi girls
Well looks like I missed you too much and wasn't meant to leave. (I think) I am miscarrying Henry Bean - been bleeding all day with cramps - just like a period. Dr couldn't do a lot - she tried very hard but EPU won't scan me until my 6th week next week. She's taken a blood test and I get the results back on Thursday. We did a HPT which was negative - she thinks Henry Bean might have gone a few days ago if the tests are already back to negative.
Me and hubby are in bits but we're talking loads, crying loads and sharing how we feel.
I feel a bit of a fool to be honest, I told so many of you on here and quite a few other friends I'd met on the Y&YW website. After receiving so many nice congratulations messages, I have to tell you all that Henry Bean hasn't survived and I don't know, just feel a bit of a wally really in that respect. I'm quite relieved we only told close family.
Anyway, I'll be back properly soon I'm sure, no doubt sharing more random cat and poo stories.
Love Joo xxx
Well looks like I missed you too much and wasn't meant to leave. (I think) I am miscarrying Henry Bean - been bleeding all day with cramps - just like a period. Dr couldn't do a lot - she tried very hard but EPU won't scan me until my 6th week next week. She's taken a blood test and I get the results back on Thursday. We did a HPT which was negative - she thinks Henry Bean might have gone a few days ago if the tests are already back to negative.
Me and hubby are in bits but we're talking loads, crying loads and sharing how we feel.
I feel a bit of a fool to be honest, I told so many of you on here and quite a few other friends I'd met on the Y&YW website. After receiving so many nice congratulations messages, I have to tell you all that Henry Bean hasn't survived and I don't know, just feel a bit of a wally really in that respect. I'm quite relieved we only told close family.
Anyway, I'll be back properly soon I'm sure, no doubt sharing more random cat and poo stories.
Love Joo xxx
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sarah
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I'm so so sorry to hear your sad news. From your other posts I honestly thought you were going to be okay and was just scared like the rest of us.
Don't think you're a wally - nobody expects this. When I mc'd I'd told everyone, family, friends, work (the whole office) but everyone was fantastic and nobody made me feel silly.
Take care honey, sending you a big hug xxx
I really feel for you. Take care of yourself and allow yourself time to grieve and heal. Hope to see you back on here when you feel ready to try again. Big hugs.
Helen.xxxxx
dg
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Take care of you hon. Maybe make yourself some of those cupcakes to make yourself feel better.
Lots of love
Ducky.
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so sorry to hear that, but never think you can't tell us girls anything, we are all here to listen.
take care and keep talking to oh, you will get each other through this difficult time!
Hugs & kissies
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I am thinking about you and if you need me you know where I am.
((((((sending you such a hugh hug)))))))
Not sure what else to say. Just wanted to let you know I am thinking about you and I am here x
You are NOT a fool. Where else can you share news either way than on here? That's what we are all here for - to share the good and bad news and hopefully offer as much support as possible.
Take care of yourself and have some 'me' time. I am really sending you lots of hugs xx
Lots of love and best wishes. We're all thinking of you xxx
We didn't tell anyone I was pg apart from this forum and the reassurance and advice I got was brilliant. And then once I mc'd this forum has been such a support for me at a time when it feels like no one else understands.
If you want to talk I am here for you. Thinking of you. xxx
If you need a chat, you know where to find us. Thinking of you, stay strong.
Love Topbird xx
To give you some hope I had 4 mc's and thought it would never happen to me but a month after having 4th mc found myself pregnant again and now have my lovely little man who's now 5 months
Wishing you lots of luck for when you feel ready to try again
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I feel a bit of a fool to be honest, I told so many of you on here and quite a few other friends I'd met on the Y&YW website. After receiving so many nice congratulations messages, I have to tell you all that Henry Bean hasn't survived and I don't know, just feel a bit of a wally really in that respect. I'm quite relieved we only told close family.
Love Joo xxx
So so sorry to hear your news Joo.
Hon I know exactly how you feel at this - i told everyone, people on here, on YYW and even hubbys pool team! Close family, Facebook! and then had to tell them all it wasnt happening.
Take your time, cry as much as you want to, and try to rest if you can.
Sending you lots of hugs.
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Like BabyB, I had only shared my news with all you girlies on the BE site, so when it went wrong the support I received was a life saver.
My heart goes out to you hun, its a devastating experience and its so unfair that so many of us have to suffer it. Im so glad you and your hubby are supporting each other and talking at this difficult time.
You know where I am if you want to chat, rant or whatever.
Take care hun xxxxx
Life can be so cruel and MCing is an awful card to be dealt. Tke time to mend and grieve and hopefully we'll se you back here soon!!
love & hugs
jen
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