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i just want to be able to say the words for real....
good morning ladies, i just wanted to share a feeling iv been having and to see if any1 else had this experience but in all my fantasies of becoming a mum,i keep imagining the first time i tell my husband that we are going to have a baby!
i just want those words to leave my mouth for real, iv said it in my head so many times and theres something about saying it the first time ever in your life that i think is extra special!
we have been together 8 years since we were both 14 and have had our kisds names picked out since then! but since getting married at xmas we have really been yurning for a baby! i look at him all the time and envisage him being a daddy...am i completely going bonkers? any reassurance would be greatly appreciated!
wow this is longer than i thought it was going to be, hope i havent wasted any1`s time. xxx ?
i just want those words to leave my mouth for real, iv said it in my head so many times and theres something about saying it the first time ever in your life that i think is extra special!
we have been together 8 years since we were both 14 and have had our kisds names picked out since then! but since getting married at xmas we have really been yurning for a baby! i look at him all the time and envisage him being a daddy...am i completely going bonkers? any reassurance would be greatly appreciated!
wow this is longer than i thought it was going to be, hope i havent wasted any1`s time. xxx ?
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argh!!!!!
Im the same as you and twizzle, I was more scared when I found out I was pg last time because she was unplanned but next time I will be soooo excited. I cant wait to tell h2b that im pregnant, I always imagine how I will say it in my head. I even imagine how I will post it on here, I cant wait for that day....................
Anyway yet again I'm waffling but yes I dream of telling my DH and the whole world infact that I have a BFP, I just hope it happens and soon xxx
i want to be able to tell my child that they were wanted ever so much and that i went through so many emotions along the way, in a way im quite enjoying being in the baby making position at the moment as i dont feel like anything is going too fast, for the past 8 years we have known we wanted to be parents and deciding to try for a baby is a big step but i think untill they arrive ul always be getting used to the idea, i too imagined how i would post it on here and then moving up to the next forum of expecting then labour and birth then actually having ur baby and having ppl there along side you doing the same thing.................. v. reasuring.
i had been day dreaming about how to tell hubby if i ever got bfp - but when i did in april (at 6am) i had been up feeling ill all night, and he was still asleep so i just said "I've got a positive" then went back to feeling ill!! not how i imagined it would be!! but we were excited the next day when i felt better.
had mc at 11 weeks and ttc again now so i'm back daydreaming again
good luck hun, lots of babydust xxxxx
The day will come for you all too and you'll be so happy.
Goodluck ttc
xx
for me im making a complete life changing decision, my life will change completely and y world will be turned on its herd, our way of life has been completely selfish because we have only ever had to think of each other for so long, all our commitments and social lives will too change but its the life change i really want, i want a completely different focus and im glad how my life has mapped out so far but i still feel completely unfulfilled...has any 1 ever felt that too? i have been broody since i was a little girl and i feel like i have waited my whole life just to try for a baby! i have always felt that im here to be a mum and that i couldnt possably do anything better and more worthwhile, i couldnt tell my friends that as they simply wouldnt understand as their brains dont function on that level yet but my hubby completely gets it.
i feel so at ease with the idea of having a baby and being a mum but once it happened im not sure id feel so harmonious!!!
i think its really sweet that you are thinking of the time u will announce to your nearest and dearest that u are pregnant, i think all the time how im gunna do it, do i put on a big brovado or do i just come out with it??? but then i think well im not bloody pregnent yet so dont build up ya hopes yet as that day may never come