Help i don't want 2 nag him...
dh still hasn't done his SA and its really pi$$ing me off!!!
its not like i'm not having my fair share of test he just has this ONE and still hasn't done it!! When i've asked him he's said he'll get round to it :roll: but when???
Has any1 else had this problem? I know every1 will suggest giving him a "helpful hand" ;\) but i leave for work at 7:15am and the drop off thing is between 9-12 so that just wont work...
Please don't think he's not being supportive cause he is very its just he's so laid back with everything and i hate nagging. xxxx
its not like i'm not having my fair share of test he just has this ONE and still hasn't done it!! When i've asked him he's said he'll get round to it :roll: but when???
Has any1 else had this problem? I know every1 will suggest giving him a "helpful hand" ;\) but i leave for work at 7:15am and the drop off thing is between 9-12 so that just wont work...
Please don't think he's not being supportive cause he is very its just he's so laid back with everything and i hate nagging. xxxx
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Basically I said that often you have to call in to "book" the slot for the sample to be analysed (they can only do some many a day and cos it has to be done within a time frame)... why don't you call them and see when is available etc.... that way he has too go then!
How's his dad too?
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His dad is doing loads better he's back at home recovering and this bit we're all so proud of....he's stopped smoking COMPLETELY!!!!!! baring in mind he's a 60 + a day bloke this is superb!!!! He's still not back to "normal" but that will take time we're all just happy he's still here even if he stole my thunder on my hospital day
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Oooo Men ! What are they like... unless I'd booked hubby in for his he certainly wasn't going to be proactive.... tell him he only has a short window to do it as he has to abstain for 3 days before (no more, no less) and you dont want to go without a bit of nooky at exactly the time of month when you should be having lots of nooky !!!
Either that or bribary....
Cos we had to go to a local private clinic this time for hubby they wouldn't let you "drop off" you had to do the deed there - hubby came out of the room and then promptly said "I want a w**K room at home" - I think he quite enjoyed it (sorry - can't believe I shared that )
I know what you mean tho, and I understand that he has had a bit of a hard time with his dad being ill - how is he by the way? - but maybe that could be an approach - made you realise how important life is and how short we all have and therefore we need to get "on with it" and see if that works....
sometimes though you have to book the time with the pathology to make sure they can anaylses the day you bring it in - why don't you call and see when is available and give him the choices of dates and then you book it - that way he has too...
Good luck honey
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Hubby said last night (whilst we were cooking dinner together I might add) that "he supposes he doesn't really need a w**k room as he has the lounge, the bathroom, the spare-room, the bedroom " WTF.... I am wondering why I am no PG - he keeps wasting his swimmers on toilet paper :roll:
MEN ;\)
Why do men do that, just walk round the house "knocking-one-off" (hubbys words) ? ? Don't get me worng i'm not a prude but i don't like ANYBODY having a w@nk on my sofa :evil: i haven't as yet bought a CSI body fluid dector light yet so i have no way of checkin but hubby better hope to god i don't catch him doing it....unless of course he's doing it in a pot which is then to be taken to the hospital )
At least my sofa's are leather ergo wipe clean
I'm not a prude either but there are somethings you'd rather not know about :roll:
Probably the same urge that makes him want to use the loo always when I am already in the shower :evil:
We've got leather sofas to thank god but there black so IF he DARES do "it" he better clean up properly ;\)
now I just need a loo buzzer that gives hubby an electric shock everytime he sits on the loo when I am in the shower/bath.... might discourage him from sitting there !!!
Either that or I need to borrow Ellie for a while
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*lilac runs off* night off excellent!!!!
NB
Obviousley i love my DD, i understand what a presious gift she is and couldn't live with out her and would never off load her on some1, but jules offered and use to be in child care
I have lots of children's story books, plenty of milk and I'm good at cuddles. I don't mind cold feet down my PJ's either!
I also know Ellie is good cake making - so will stop off an pick up supplies on the way to the train for after tea!
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NB - Lilac* lubs her daughter very much and I'm only borrowing cos I haven't got one of my own yet