Bad tears (3rd degrees+) - how long before you.. you know?
I suffered a 3rd degree tear 8 weeks ago and am so scared of having sex again... my dh is being patient and not rushing me at all but in a way i feel the longer I put it off the worse it will be - I'm just so scared it will hurt?!?!
Amy x
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I waited four months before trying. The first few times we gave up without actually managing but I believe this was because I was so tense and worried about it hurting.
The first time was painful initially but things got better and better. Use lots of lubrication and a couple of glasses of wine or anything to make you relax
I had a 3rd degree tear. We started again about 4 weeks later which really surprised me as I expected it to take much longer. I think the key is relaxing and trusting your patrner to be gentle with you. Also dont do it because you feel you have to, do it because you want to.
Lisa xx
So if your scared like I was - take it slow but go for it - the fear was worse than the reality!
Amy x
Depends when your ready...I just wanted it
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