full time mummy
My oh was talking about the christmas work do he's got coming up and how the company are giving them booze money, and then about the neat christmas bonus he should be getting, and I said "mmmmmmmm, I wonder what my christmas bonus will be?" he laughed and said, you dont work... why would you get one! After years of work do's and xmas bonuses its all stopped. I am a full time mummy... No christmas parties and bonus for me this year then. But sharing christmas with my gorgeous little boy is enough for me. xxxx
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Why don't you email him a self penned appraisal form for a joke with what percentage you think you deserve - he might see the funny side and pass on your very well earned reward.
I am guessing you are one of the lucky people wh owns a house whereby the housework does itself, as does the washing, and ironing. Then of course there is the how many ever hours everyday you look after your lovely baby..........
Give that man of yours a reality check - and put your claim on some of that bonus! You more than deserve it.
xx
my xmas bonus is usually presents from my class! will miss that this year and al the cards! BUT, getting to see my lo doing things for the first time beats any bonus!
I went back to work recently and one of my younger, male collegues made a comment about how being a stay at home mum is easy! I absolutlely spent the next 10 minutes correcting him and explaining that as far as I'm concerned, my days at work are my days off and that the days I'm at home are a million times harder than anything he does while he's there, and I mean every word of it!!
Anyone who is able to look after their Lo's 24/7 deserves a medal in my eyes.
xxxx