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Mummies of boys...
I wonder if this post will ring a bell for any of you.
When I was pregnant I was desperate for a girl and convinced I was having a girl. I never wanted a son (sorry that sounds awful). When I got to the 20 week scan and was told he was a boy I was so shocked - and SO happy!! - pregnancy hormones eh.
It used to do my head in how men /boys are always 'mummys boys' and mums seem to think their sons can do no wrong - I always said I'd never spoil MY son and treat him like a baby / have him living at home till 35/ etc etc.
However the love for my son is totally overwhelming and I just want to snuggle him, baby him, do absolutely everything for him and I want him to be the biggest mummys boy ever and never leaaaave me lol! dear god I am going to make a terrible MIL!
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When I was pregnant I was desperate for a girl and convinced I was having a girl. I never wanted a son (sorry that sounds awful). When I got to the 20 week scan and was told he was a boy I was so shocked - and SO happy!! - pregnancy hormones eh.
It used to do my head in how men /boys are always 'mummys boys' and mums seem to think their sons can do no wrong - I always said I'd never spoil MY son and treat him like a baby / have him living at home till 35/ etc etc.
However the love for my son is totally overwhelming and I just want to snuggle him, baby him, do absolutely everything for him and I want him to be the biggest mummys boy ever and never leaaaave me lol! dear god I am going to make a terrible MIL!
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That is EXCATLY how I feel!!!!!
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I honestly can't do enough for him and I know I won't be able to stop him becoming a Mummies boy!! Gald I'm not the only one x
I also was hoping for a girl and even the first few days of my son being born I could not believe it was a boy, and I think I was a bit disapointed, but now, I would not want it any other way.
My boy is 6 monthes and already a big mummies boy, and I hope it never changes.
I want more kids and I want all boys.
I wouldn't be bothered one but if he was gay either, as long as he is happy and he always comes home for christmas.
Merry Christmas Ladies xx
I now cant imagine having a girl and just lurve my little boy to bits!!!i would be happy if he turned out gay,straight,alien...who cares as long as he loves me as much as i love him and like you said stays with me forever lol....nope only kidding i do want more children and would like a girl in the future,i hope i can be a good MIL and get along with my future DIL esp if i never get to have my own little girl i would like to look on my sons wife as a daughter!!!!!!!!Gawd how soppy am i???x
I must be strange as I have no desire for my boy to be a mummy's boy (maybe I'm too scared he will turn out like OH...?) as long as he's happy, and never grows up he'll be ok ;\)
I've also recently made the decision never to be a MIL....
Ollie is definately his dads boy, he will go to him over me every time given the chance, will struggle out of my arms to gt to him all the time, and generally behaves for his dad. :roll:
this next one is a girl, and I'm hoping she will be a mummy's girl, but I have a feeling she will be daddy's too....
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Gabe likes cuddles off mummy but when it comes to playing, mummy is totally boring!! xx
It'll be ok - he's never going to grow up so its never going to be a problem
And I can still work on my lil girl
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Yep, i'm going to be a nightmare!
not really worrying about it now tho, he's got a right little mummy's boy these past few weeks (he's 8 n a half months) but till he's about 3 i'm just gna let him be! lol
don't like talking about this... makes me not want him to grow up *sob*!!!!!
As for our daughter...She isn't aloud out at all unless big brother is on guard. lol. She's gonna love us. lol
;Lisa xxx