OH low crying tolerence
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Hi girls,
Tonight I fed and changed Connor told OH he was tired and went to get a shower. Id been in the shower 5mins before Connor started to cry, then oh shouted at him and yelled at me to get out of the shower because my son was crying!
I know OH was tired but its not the first time this has happened and I just feel like I cant do anything. when hes had less thn 9 hours sleep or been to work!
I do around 80% o the childcare, never get good nights sleep because im breastfeeding have soothed and looked after Connor when ive been up for 40 hours, when ive had mastitis with a 40degree temp, bad back ect ect
Why can he not soothe him for 10 minutes whilst i get a shower?
Gill
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PS feel guilty for moaning when hes in a good mood he is great with Connor just needed to vent
Tonight I fed and changed Connor told OH he was tired and went to get a shower. Id been in the shower 5mins before Connor started to cry, then oh shouted at him and yelled at me to get out of the shower because my son was crying!
I know OH was tired but its not the first time this has happened and I just feel like I cant do anything. when hes had less thn 9 hours sleep or been to work!
I do around 80% o the childcare, never get good nights sleep because im breastfeeding have soothed and looked after Connor when ive been up for 40 hours, when ive had mastitis with a 40degree temp, bad back ect ect
Why can he not soothe him for 10 minutes whilst i get a shower?
Gill
xxxx
PS feel guilty for moaning when hes in a good mood he is great with Connor just needed to vent
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My dh is fantastic but men just don't have the same mothering instincts. Ilovemygeek - my dh does that too, I feel bad telling him what to do all the time but if I dont then I would do everything!! Except he does now happily get up at night as he didn't want an overtired stroppy wife anymore!!
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