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pull & pray??? Stupid OH
OK this may be TMI but had to rant....
We have defo decided NO MORE babies but as Archie has been in hosp hadn't got around to getting contraception. Told OH my breastfeeding could not be relied upon as when he was ill I didn't feed on demand and have had an AF. OH decided my total abstinance rule was a bit harsh so promised he'd be 'careful' but obviously changed his mind and the crucial moment !!
This morning he actually joked about how nice it would be to have a girl (well I think he was joking!!)
Bloody stupid man........good job I'm getting a coil on Friday.
On a serious note -should I test before getting coil fitted if AF was nearly 4 weeks ago?
We have defo decided NO MORE babies but as Archie has been in hosp hadn't got around to getting contraception. Told OH my breastfeeding could not be relied upon as when he was ill I didn't feed on demand and have had an AF. OH decided my total abstinance rule was a bit harsh so promised he'd be 'careful' but obviously changed his mind and the crucial moment !!
This morning he actually joked about how nice it would be to have a girl (well I think he was joking!!)
Bloody stupid man........good job I'm getting a coil on Friday.
On a serious note -should I test before getting coil fitted if AF was nearly 4 weeks ago?
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were condoms out the question?
I'll chuffing well kill OH if I see a positive although we've only done it a few times... and I am breastfeeding... and I did wee after.... (pray pray)
Fingers crossed your pull & pray method has worked!!
Doh feel so stupid..... I should know better, I (ahem) advise teenagers on sexual health...
I thought that you can get pregant while breastfeeding anyway - no periods but still just as fertile?
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"However, they may still be able to prevent an unwanted pregnancy by having an IUD (intrauterine device) fitted within five days of having had unprotected sex. This can sometimes be fitted after five days following unprotected sex but they should contact one of the services below immediately:"
So I think you should be fine. Stupid oh though!!!
Trust me, you still can get periods while breastfeeding :roll: So much for all the benefits of BF?!?!
Not sure if there is any point in testing because it's not been that long since upsi, would a test give you a correct pos/neg this soon? Maybe you'd be better off putting off the coil until after your next AF and just use condoms in the meantime?
Corinna x
Fingers crossed it works for you! But definatly test!!
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Did it hurt? Am getting coil next friday and am really scared!!
Don't worry about it x
Oh well....lay back and think of England
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