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Did you change?
'WARNING.....SLUSHY POST'
May have mentioned this before but before I had Kady I was SO not maternal in any way! In fact my whole outlook on kids were 'I'd rather not' and I was very career minded.
Even though friends had children, when I went round, I saw them more as a pain in the rear for stopping me chat with my friend than cute lol. Also any chat to do with kids bored me senseless!!
Anyway, as soon as I gave birth to my baby boy EVERYTHING CHANGED!!!!!
All of a sudden this little bundle was my world! Suddenly for once in my life I couldn't care less if I looked like shite first thing in the morning and it wasn't important if I stank of baby sick and missed a shower for 3 days! I didn't care that I'd had no sleep and my nipples had blisters because I was struggling to bf.
I was pushed to my absolute limits but none of it mattered as all I had to do was look at my baby (my & oh's) creation, and everything seemed insignificant!
I look at my baby now (who is now 16 months) and can't beleive just how much I love him! It is a totally unconditional love that overwhelms me!
To my baby - I love you to the ends of the earth, thank you for making me so happy!
Sorry.....I must be having an extra soppy day lol.
Did any of you change when you had your baby/s?
May have mentioned this before but before I had Kady I was SO not maternal in any way! In fact my whole outlook on kids were 'I'd rather not' and I was very career minded.
Even though friends had children, when I went round, I saw them more as a pain in the rear for stopping me chat with my friend than cute lol. Also any chat to do with kids bored me senseless!!
Anyway, as soon as I gave birth to my baby boy EVERYTHING CHANGED!!!!!
All of a sudden this little bundle was my world! Suddenly for once in my life I couldn't care less if I looked like shite first thing in the morning and it wasn't important if I stank of baby sick and missed a shower for 3 days! I didn't care that I'd had no sleep and my nipples had blisters because I was struggling to bf.
I was pushed to my absolute limits but none of it mattered as all I had to do was look at my baby (my & oh's) creation, and everything seemed insignificant!
I look at my baby now (who is now 16 months) and can't beleive just how much I love him! It is a totally unconditional love that overwhelms me!
To my baby - I love you to the ends of the earth, thank you for making me so happy!
Sorry.....I must be having an extra soppy day lol.
Did any of you change when you had your baby/s?
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I did used to go out a lot though, thought I missed it but I went out clubbing on new years eve and it was sh*te would rather have been home with my baby!
So now I just go to the pub for a meal with friends and Gabe comes along, he's pretty good so I take him anywhere
xx
I always used to judge the way people parented their kids and say "I'll never do that" but I do!
I always said "I'll never pick my lo up as soon as they cry" but I do and i don't care lol
I'm also more stroppy :P lol and a control freak xxx
Then I had another voice intrude into my head one night. 'Have a child before its too late'? DOnt know what the 2 late meant and never asked LOL.
I have days when I can be maternal and other days when I forget that Zacky is mine. Those are the days that I find really confusing. Because I know he is mine and I would never be without him. I just dont get soppy and over emotional about it for some reason.
Zackys dad on the other hand will tell everyone that LO is his whole world, and if OH has a bad day at work, LO will give him a big smile and it makes everything better.
Beck
xxx