no wonder it hurt!( sorry tmi!)
After my labour i was told i just had a graze but i couldn't understand why it hurt so bad, i could hardly walk and just felt so sore and uncomfortable. Other mums i knew who'd had grazes were up and about within days so i didnt know why 3wks later it hurt like hell. Anyway 10weeks on its still tender down below so went to the doc who examined me to say that my labia had torn and that i should have had stitches - no wonder it bloody hurt!! it has partially healed and will continue to heal on its own but has obviously taken much longer!
(sorry if tmi! lol)
(sorry if tmi! lol)
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How the hell did the MW's not notice it?!
Glad you're on the mend now though
xx
No wonder women have babies- men would never cope!
As for the 'special cuddles' - use lots of lubrication...and dont rush it. It took me 5 1/2 months to feel brave enough. (I was cut and had a graze) the more relaxed you are the easier it will be!
Bathe in lavender oil it helps heal & cleanse it. I tried it with my stitches and it helped.
I hoper you heal up soon this is terrible that they missed something like that!
Lyns