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Feeling a bit down
Hi Everyone.
I had a M/C in November last year at 4wks and husband and I are trying again now but I'm not due till next week so just waiting for AF. I think I actually dealt with the whole thing pretty well but some days I seem to have really bad days where I think about it a lot. I'm so frustrated with all this waiting for AF I keep thinking I would be 4 months pregnant if I hadn't m/c I'm fed up with my job and I'm desperate to leave and start a family which I didn't feel like before. I guess its a case of you don't know what you've got till its gone. I know there is no magic answer I just feel like I need to speak to someone who can understand how desperate I feel.
S. x
I had a M/C in November last year at 4wks and husband and I are trying again now but I'm not due till next week so just waiting for AF. I think I actually dealt with the whole thing pretty well but some days I seem to have really bad days where I think about it a lot. I'm so frustrated with all this waiting for AF I keep thinking I would be 4 months pregnant if I hadn't m/c I'm fed up with my job and I'm desperate to leave and start a family which I didn't feel like before. I guess its a case of you don't know what you've got till its gone. I know there is no magic answer I just feel like I need to speak to someone who can understand how desperate I feel.
S. x
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The worst thing is that more and more, I think I'm feeling like this today because its actually PMT and I'm not pregnant. I can't test till Saturday but i'm not 'feeling' preg either. it's all very depressing.
Give yourself time to grieve and heal without feeling guilty about it.
I hope you feel you can talk to the girls on here they are fantasic and have got me through with all the kind words xxxx