Whinge about facebook!
Hi all
Don't get me wrong, I adore facebook, I'm always on it and love keeping in touch with people on it! But sometimes it has its downfalls doesn't it?...
A girl has posted on my hubby's wall in a manner which personally I find, a bit "too familiar", and because I don't know who she is, I don't like it the familiar-ness of it. I don't know if she's an old school friend - she could be an ex for all I know !!!
No reason to post other than me venting really. Some of you probably wouldn't have an issue at all if you read something like this, but I read it and it just niggles my insides a bit that's all...
Pregnancy hormones maybe?!?! LOL
Joo xxx
Don't get me wrong, I adore facebook, I'm always on it and love keeping in touch with people on it! But sometimes it has its downfalls doesn't it?...
A girl has posted on my hubby's wall in a manner which personally I find, a bit "too familiar", and because I don't know who she is, I don't like it the familiar-ness of it. I don't know if she's an old school friend - she could be an ex for all I know !!!
No reason to post other than me venting really. Some of you probably wouldn't have an issue at all if you read something like this, but I read it and it just niggles my insides a bit that's all...
Pregnancy hormones maybe?!?! LOL
Joo xxx
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Have you asked your hubby who is it, I would I mean I would not ask in a funny way or anything just casually ask who she is as you have every right to know
K xx
13 weeks
Stupid girls, just think that its you who gets to cuddle up to him every night while with any luck they are still scrounging round trying to find mr right!!!
Nina xx
I emailed him and said "Who is XXX XXX? She has written on your wall and been a bit too familiar for my liking in MY opinion".
I stressed the MY bit as he will tell me I am being ridiculous! (which I probably am, I know...)
Another girl posts similar sorts of "familiar-ness" but I know her so I don't mind. It just wiggles me a bit because I don't know her, you know?
Nina - sorry but it makes me feel a bit better knowing its not just me! (sorry though if you know what I mean!)
xxx
K xx
13 weeks
Mine has loads of female friends on facebook that I don't know and whilst I can't obviously know everyone from his past I can certainly comment about the women in his present (even if they're only in contact through facebook!!)
"Oh don't be an overprotective, silly wife! She's someone from school I have abit of banter with about the football*** altho why I need to be explaining that is stupid!!!"
*** her wall post made NO reference to football AT ALL can I just add!!!
I replied and said "Don't call me silly and dismiss my feelings! When someone I don't know is flirty with my husband I don't like it!"
Cheeky fucker! LOL
I wonder if I was anymore hormonal than I am today I might message her and say keep your paws off my man!!!!!!!!
I think I'm having a grump against hubby week - we've been petty arguing all week!!!
Joo xxx
[Modified by: Joo on January 29, 2009 02:19 PM]
[Modified by: littlem on January 29, 2009 02:20 PM]
I think as long as you are open and honest to your OH about how you feel about things in there thats fine.
doushka - I know what you mean hun I would maybe feel the same way though think about it, you are about to give birth to his stunning little baby there is no way he would do anything to risk losing you the love of his life and his little baby. I think even if she is a troll and she does actually try something then he would tell you right away. You never know though maybe she is just trying to get some friends back after her marriage has broken down.
chuffedbaby2 - I do see your point to be honest if hubby was staying up while I was going to bed to chat to these girls I would be pissed as well. I bet he is doing nothing wrong either but I can understand where you are coming from.
K xx
13 weeks today
EXACTLY!!!!!!!
My hubby just fights back when my hormones are going off on one - makes it tripl-y worse!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
xxx
lisa 40&2 and very hormonal (can u tell? )
I feel for you Joo and the others - god I hate it when women are over-familiar with men who are taken! (equally some men are gits of course but doesn't seem that way here) x
i agree chuffedbaby2 Men can be niave and have no idea how women work!!