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am i being unfair?
Hi, am i being unfair by demanding attention from my partner??
I am 37 weeks with my 2nd child and its my partners 1st time being a dad, i know hes excited and terrified at the same time and i give him all the supprt he needs and im very affectionate with him.
But he doesnt seem to want to come near me! Not even for kisses and cuddles, i thought he would be great supprt threwout my pregnancy, i suggest a back massage or cuddles in bed but he isnt botherd.
This is realy worrying me, i have asked him if he happy with me and gave him the choice to leave but he insists he wants to be together and loves me 2 bits.
am i bieng paranoid and cut him some slack or shall i stick to my guns?
Sorry but i realy needed to get this off my chest! x
I am 37 weeks with my 2nd child and its my partners 1st time being a dad, i know hes excited and terrified at the same time and i give him all the supprt he needs and im very affectionate with him.
But he doesnt seem to want to come near me! Not even for kisses and cuddles, i thought he would be great supprt threwout my pregnancy, i suggest a back massage or cuddles in bed but he isnt botherd.
This is realy worrying me, i have asked him if he happy with me and gave him the choice to leave but he insists he wants to be together and loves me 2 bits.
am i bieng paranoid and cut him some slack or shall i stick to my guns?
Sorry but i realy needed to get this off my chest! x
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i know my OH goes into himself when he's worried or stressing about something. i try to talk to him but it doesn't help, he just needs space for a while to think things through and the he is back to his lovely self. i find it wierd because i'm a talker and would rather discuss everything, while he is more of a thinker when worried
[Modified by: faz on February 03, 2009 09:32 AM]
xxx
I hope he will be back to self soon as i miss his comfort!!
I am a huge touchy, feely person so maybe i am overeacting, XXX