What to do???
This has nothing to do with babys but....
I have just found out that my ex, (my sons dad) is seing a 14yr old girl!!! Hes 26 yrs old and this makes me sick to the stomache. I was 13 and he was 17 when we met so it doesnt suprise me. I feel sorry for this girl cos as like i did most girls that age are gullable and think its clever to go out with an older guy. But this is taking it to far!!! Hes disgusting and cant belive hes my sons dad.
Do i tell the police (which will probably not do anything!) or say something to him myself?? And do i stop my son from seing his dad? He loves his dads (god knows why cos he a plonka) but it would brake my sons heart if i stopped visits! Im going out my mind what to do, but he cant just get away with it!!!!! I wont let him. HELP please xx
I have just found out that my ex, (my sons dad) is seing a 14yr old girl!!! Hes 26 yrs old and this makes me sick to the stomache. I was 13 and he was 17 when we met so it doesnt suprise me. I feel sorry for this girl cos as like i did most girls that age are gullable and think its clever to go out with an older guy. But this is taking it to far!!! Hes disgusting and cant belive hes my sons dad.
Do i tell the police (which will probably not do anything!) or say something to him myself?? And do i stop my son from seing his dad? He loves his dads (god knows why cos he a plonka) but it would brake my sons heart if i stopped visits! Im going out my mind what to do, but he cant just get away with it!!!!! I wont let him. HELP please xx
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Social Services cant really do anything either, if they say they arent doing anything together then I'm afraid there is nothing that can be done to stop them seeing each other.
Surely her parents arent happy with the situation you would think they would step in and tell her she has not to see him
If no one will do anything about it hes going to get a piece of mind!! He either stops it or i will stop him from seing his son. I couldnt bare the thought of my son hanging around with his pedo dad. X
Im going to have words with my boys dad sunday morning when he picks him up, am going to give him the chance to do the right thing before i take it any further. as i realy dont need this hanging over my head when i am due any day to have my baby girl.
I hope no one else finds out about this as i live in a small village and end of the day my son got to grow up arpund here and dont want him to be known as the kid with a peder-ass dad! Cos we all know kids can be cruel. sorry to go on about it.
Thank u for being understanding and all the advice.
xx
If social services say they cant do anything without name and DOB tell the police. Sex with a child under the age of 16 is an offence. Whether the child is consenting or not as the legal age limit is there for a reason. U16's are deemed not capable of consent due to age. Of course the poice would ave to prove a sexual relationship was going on but they have to start somewhere and even if you dont know the name of the girl you do know you ex partners name and this is a starting point for any investigation. You will then at least be able to say you have done the right thing. If you are concerned contact a solicitor about yours and your sons right.
This is a difficult position for you. i hope you get through it good luck x