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Is it always the OHs...
in Baby
who initiate sex? I sometimes worry if it wasn't him who initiated it, we wouldn't have Evie and Kyra now! Oh dear, I sound awful now don't I?! Poor oh! xox
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We both have a high sex drive.....but its normally 50 50, He's just as bad as I am!!
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I'm the the mood now for a bit of nookie after watching 300. Mr Butler is just SO hot!!! Typical oh's not here he's out watching the footie. xox
ooooo yeah baby I'll have a slice of that!! My oh looks like a younger version of Gerry. Been with him before he was famous now I know why I fell for oh!
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My hubby loves it when I initiate it so I do, I wake him up in very good ways!! If I want it I make sure I get it lol!!! We spend a lot of time apart so its always like new for us and we have been married 5years so makes it exciting!
He initiates it most times tho about 3 times a day haha!! xxx
My oh's the one on the left. Do you think he looks a bit like a young Gerry? xox
I've done the exact same as Katie before. He'd be playing his game and i'd just walk in naked and stand in front of the screen. He was soon stood to attention Literally!
Well that was back in the good old days before i had kiddies and lost it. lol. Don't get enough time to do anything! when we even attempt it Grace will either wake up and put us off or Ethan will start shouting us from his bedroom. The mood soon goes. lol
Lisa xxx
Cant remember the last time we had sex, but can remember that it usually invloves OH saying something along the lines of 'are you willing to sort me out' or something similar....
I've given up initiating it as we're either a) too tired to bother, b) he's at work or c) arguing.
I think the last time he tried to initiate sex (rather than just him being pleased) it went something along the lines of 'are we going to have sex'........
exciting eh!
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we had sex last night but i just went along with it for him cuz the day before i had come home from the post office without him noticing and i caught him about to "d.i.y" which made me feel like shit, still feel crappy about it now...we weren't really speaking until last night x
IF ONLY!!!!
Normally we'll be lying on the settee when lo in bed and if my feet are near his "bits", thats it he wants it!!! He's got something about my feet, they've been very useful recently (he he sorry that's way tmi)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mrsjbourne - don't feel bad. Most men do that (although they wont admit it to their oh's). My oh used to work away a lot and although her never admitted to it I'm sure he must have done it! At least he's diy'ing and not going elsewhere! xxxxx
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Bed is for sleeping when you are shattered and have a 5 week old baby!
Although a few mornings ago i was awake 2am-6am and got bored and woke him up and gave him a surprise, if you know what i mean!!
My hubby's idea of instigating sex is either by tugging at my jammie bottoms, saying 'we gona have sex tonight then?' or by being too nice to me that i feel guilty and give in but then i find i enjoy it and think 'why dont i just do it more often lol'.
Sharon x
I 1st watched PS I Love You on our honeymoon on the cruise cinema and i bawled my eyes out! I was 10 weeks pregnant and the 1st time i had ever cried at a film, theres no stopping me now!! lol
Sharon x
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It's usually my dh that initiates things and dare I confess that I use 'giving him a treat' as a way of getting him to do things! lol
mrsjb - when I was pregnant, one day I noticed by stretch marks and then found a porn mag down the side of my dh's bed - I sat and cried, made me feel awful even though my dh always tells me how much he loves me and my body. It's horrid that men 'diy' but I agree it's better than cheating with someone else.
He probably waited for you to be out so that you wouldn't get upset.