going out with oh ALONE this avo ....
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hi ladies well as the title says oh and i are off to the pics this avo then goin to grab some tea afterwards .....were going to see marley and me ,im really exited that we have some free time (dont get me wrong i love us all being together but just not having to dash out to change a pooey nappy will be great) the grandparents are having jack and sophia ,were dropping them off at 4 ,showin at 4.50 so hopefully we will have time to get some tea afterwards ...oh gosh for some silly reason i feel a bit nervous ...should i go as i am or put something nice and summery on ???? hmmm why am i thinking so much into it ....did anyone else feel a bit nervous when they went out for the first time after lo was born??
thanks ladies ....
a nervous but exited lisa (how silly ) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
thanks ladies ....
a nervous but exited lisa (how silly ) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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I felt like a teenager again the first time i went out with DH after Oscar was born - he was about 3 months at the time (Oscar, not hubby hahaha). felt so strange to be in the car and not have a little person in the back, and felt very weird holding hands as one of us is usually pushing a buggy! We've been out a few times now since and i always dress up nicely even if we're just going to the cinema - because i so rarely get the opportunity to wear nice clothes without them being dribbled on, and to remind hubby i'm still his wife and not just a tired grotty mummy! Have fun hun xxxxxx
We managed to last 3 hours and talked about our LO the whole time!!!
Have a great time and enjoy yourself, you deserve it x
My first night out with oh i got all pampered and put my best stuff on like it was our first date again. lol. I was a bit nervous because both my kids are proper mummy and daddy magnets and not keen with anyone else so was thinking about them constantly but the time together made us feel so much closer and when we got back to the monkeys they were fine! I'd been worried all night for nothing! lol. Hope you have fun anyway and don't worry too much, because you'll probably get back to the same smiling (not bothered mummy is back) greeting i got.
Lisa xxx
My dream evening (well for now) would be to drop Freya at mum's or MIL before dinner so I haven't got to think about it, I get dressed up and feel great not like a Mummy or wifey. We go to the pictures and have a nice meal and drink after. Get home to a child free place and wake up by my own accord the following morning. But this will not happen this side of six months time as I'm due another baby in 4ish weeks time. In fact I don't think it has ever happend since having Freya 17 months ago,
Sorry hogging your post now and winging.
Kerry
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I'm going to see Marley and Me next week, i'm not a crier but my friend is useless so by the sounds of it she's going to be inconsolable!