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god, i feel like a single mum!!
me and oh are still together by the way but his life doesnt seem to have changed. oh lost his job in nov and has been gettin bits of work. i still do most of the childcare and housework. i may as well be a single mum. he has a face on if he does have to get up on a morning and like today, he went out to pick his sister-6 hours ago!!i have no way of gettin hold of him and if i do ring him to find out where the hell he has got to-this is most days- he has a right go at me and says hes life isnt his own anymore!!well duh thats what happens when you have a baby.aaarrrgh. whenever i try to talk to him about anything he gets really defensive and tries to make out its my fault so i figuire whats the point and then he has a go cos im tired or in a mood. i swear im gonna raise my son to be a kind and considerate man.
sorry for the rant ladies but im ready to explode and i know im just feeling sorry for myself cos iv been in all day with a grumpy, teethin baby and im shattered.
rant over.lol.xxx
sorry for the rant ladies but im ready to explode and i know im just feeling sorry for myself cos iv been in all day with a grumpy, teethin baby and im shattered.
rant over.lol.xxx
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But he is good really, he would help alot more if I let him.
Your oh sounds like he's lost sight of his priorities or something, he cant just disappear for 6 hours and then complain his life isnt his own anymore, what would happen if you did that?
Grrr men!
xxx
lol, this is exactly the type of thing that drives me insane with my oh, it could be us!! He does help, but requires exact, precise instructions and guidence on everything, even if it's something we do every single bloody day. :roll:
if i leave him for 2 hours the house looks like a bombs hit it, fins routine is shot and hes 'exhausted'.
i do feel like i do nothin but moan bout oh and in may ways he is fantastic and does more than some of my friends oh but he just doesnt think. hes such a selfish git at times.xxx