My beans have gone.
Ive only been aware that i was pregnant for about a week. And within this week I've made so many plans which have now been crushed. On wednesday I lost one of the beans at just over 8 weeks and friday I lost the second. Im not really sure how to deal with this.
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it really is hard and im sorry to hear about your awful experience too. I just cant stop crying, our whole family had our hearts set on those little beans.
thankyou.x
As the girls have said, this was a bereavement like any other and you must give yourself time to grieve. You may go though all the fellings of grief, anger, sadness etc.
I had a mc in January we found out at the 12 week scan. I had an ERPC the same day. But now I am just over 9 weeks pg again.
It's hard, but you will get through it. Take the time you need. If you feel doing domething to remember your beans would help then do that. I put a forget-me-not in the miscarriage awareness meadow on the website, and bought a little bear that said Little Angel on it.
Hope you feel the light at the end of the tunnel soon hun. Hugs. xx
I had an MC 3 weeks ago and it is hard and I'm still struggling and do put on a front most of the time but even at the weekend I had a cry and you should cry and go through the process of grieving - but it does and will get better but come on here as much as you like and get some great support from some lovely girls.
I also purchased a bracelett over the weekend as a little remembrance token for my lost bean and I've found that has helped and liked the reseach of finding something just right.
Big (((hugs))) to you hunny xx
Just wanted to say so sorry to hear about your recent loss, its a really difficult time but we do understand and hope this site helps you a bit, as the others have said take one day at a time, some seem to be worse than others but it does get easier
take care of yourself
daisyx
Btw, is there a forum for ill children? My daughter Dani has a heart condition and just wondered if there was a forum I could click around.
Btw, is there a forum for ill children? My daughter Dani has a heart condition and just wondered if there was a forum I could click around.
Thankyou again. Hope everyone is well(: