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need your honest opinions *update*
Ok so the short of it is Im pg. Although I have been very broody I didnt want another just yet. I balled my eyes out when I found out and was/am so worried about how it will affect us esp the boys. Well OH was telling me that we will be ok ect that day and made me realise that, yes, it will be a struggle but its happened and we have to deal with it. Well OH got up this morning and is now set on me having a termination. Now, I was in pieces about having another but today the sickness has kicked in and I am starting to feel pg and everything he is coming out with is making me angry and wanting to have a termination less & less with every word. I have just told him I dont think I can abort this baby and he is saying that its not just my decision - which I know and agree with 100%.
What the hell am I gonna do? How can I make a decision like this? We did agree to more in the future jus not this soon. I know its the wrong time to have another but I feel like Im killing my baby!
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Told OH today that I wont be terminating and he says I am selfish ect, ect. I am sure he still thinks he can change my mind. Havnt told the Gparents but I know what it will be - I am just waiting for it to blow up with OHs mum. She keeps using the boys against me, saying it will be bad for them. I cant believe I have let people make me feel so pressured. I really felt the choice was taken away from me. I am still really scared of the fallout (having another and peoples reactions) but I know when I see my baby with my boys it will be worth it.
Do you think I am making the right choice or am I being selfish?
Thankyou so much for your help and support girls, I love you Junies so much! xx
[Modified by: JunieMummy on 03 October 2009 16:40:11 ]
What the hell am I gonna do? How can I make a decision like this? We did agree to more in the future jus not this soon. I know its the wrong time to have another but I feel like Im killing my baby!
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Told OH today that I wont be terminating and he says I am selfish ect, ect. I am sure he still thinks he can change my mind. Havnt told the Gparents but I know what it will be - I am just waiting for it to blow up with OHs mum. She keeps using the boys against me, saying it will be bad for them. I cant believe I have let people make me feel so pressured. I really felt the choice was taken away from me. I am still really scared of the fallout (having another and peoples reactions) but I know when I see my baby with my boys it will be worth it.
Do you think I am making the right choice or am I being selfish?
Thankyou so much for your help and support girls, I love you Junies so much! xx
[Modified by: JunieMummy on 03 October 2009 16:40:11 ]
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Thankyou for your support and replies it means so much to me xx
Tracey I will charge my phone hun. xx
Massivest hugs ever.xx
happy for you hun, ur doing the right thing for ur boys n you, f##k everyone else !
James was making tuna, sweetcorn & Mayo baguettes earlier and he asked me if I was allowed the mayo?! Just from that little sentance I know he has accepted that Im keeping bean and I am actually impressed he remembered from last time! I feel much more relaxed now! xx
If the men don't step up then you two girls should run off together and share a house with all your littlies lol! Genius! No, don't thank me honest.... lolxx
Ooooooo I can't believe so many of us Junies are having LOs again...It was such a privalige to share it all with you the first time round that this just makes it even more special......
Sending huge hugs and kisses to you all.x x x x x x
katie
tammi
nat
zoey
me
elaine
whos next
In fact, you fertile lot - it would be easier to say who's NOT had a baby/pregnant again lol.xx
Sarah how long you got left now hon? I see you on fbk every now and again but haven't seen you for a while.xx