Some OV advice please
Hey girls, need your advice on whats happening.
I'm on CD11 and yesterday I was sure I was OVing as usual but as the day went on I started getting really bad cramps like i do before AF but not just around the ovary area like I've felt other months but also my back too. When I went to bed I almost felt as if AF was about to appear. Is this normal? Haven't felt like this before.
Still not got my PMA back after last month cos when I told OH that I though I was OVing he said "oh well we don't need to do it tonight, you'll still be OVing for a couple of days". Although he got me really angry and a bit upset I let it go. I'm almost thinking whats the point anyway.
I'm on CD11 and yesterday I was sure I was OVing as usual but as the day went on I started getting really bad cramps like i do before AF but not just around the ovary area like I've felt other months but also my back too. When I went to bed I almost felt as if AF was about to appear. Is this normal? Haven't felt like this before.
Still not got my PMA back after last month cos when I told OH that I though I was OVing he said "oh well we don't need to do it tonight, you'll still be OVing for a couple of days". Although he got me really angry and a bit upset I let it go. I'm almost thinking whats the point anyway.
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as for your AF symptons...I had extremely bad back ache sat/sun and couldn't put it down to why...then clicked I am (hopefully) OVing today so perhaps me and you do have that before OV?
PP84 x
seriously, it is so easy for women to understand as its our bodies and we generally do the most research/reading up on TTC/pregnancy.
As hard as it is, try not to get too focused on just having a baby - especially around BD time. Just go with the flow and let nature take over.
Perhaps theres another reason for you feeling down - how long have you been trying?
xxx
This is month 5 so not that long compared to some. I think I'm so down cos last month was the first I'd let myself believe that we'd actually done it. Only to be let down. Although you can let me know what you think...
My AF was really light and only lasted not quite 2 full days but ever since I've been having headaches, constantly tired,feeling a bit sicky, tender and spotty boobs. It's like i don't know my body anymore. AAAAAHHHHHHH someone help me. x
I totally can relate - I got a bfp last month at cd31 and was ecstatic.....my af then appeared just short of 2days later. It's painful so this month i've taken a complete break from it. Couldn't post on here for two weeks after and this month i'm not doing anything really, it's too hard and i'm only on month3!
I think me and you can just 'up' each other when we need it. Go get yourself some chocolate, have a bath, try to relax and not let your body dictate your life to you! Sometimes your body lets you see symptons that might not be there, if that makes sense? because you want it so much.
big hugs x x
Think you're right, we can definately 'up' each other. And your totally right about the SS, wishful thinking I think.
Big hugs right back atcha. x
SS is a horrid horrid thing. First month TTC I was loving it, keeping an eye out for everything, last month I got fab symptons! this month i'm not even going to keep a record so I won't know exactly dpo/symptons/etc....if AF comes, she comes! I can't deal with bfns again so no testing until absolutely certain this month LOL.
My email is activated if you ever want to talk
xx
SS is a horrid horrid thing. First month TTC I was loving it, keeping an eye out for everything, last month I got fab symptons! this month i'm not even going to keep a record so I won't know exactly dpo/symptons/etc....if AF comes, she comes! I can't deal with bfns again so no testing until absolutely certain this month LOL.
My email is activated if you ever want to talk
xx
SS is a horrid horrid thing. First month TTC I was loving it, keeping an eye out for everything, last month I got fab symptons! this month i'm not even going to keep a record so I won't know exactly dpo/symptons/etc....if AF comes, she comes! I can't deal with bfns again so no testing until absolutely certain this month LOL.
My email is activated if you ever want to talk
xx