who is right?? little bit of TMI :lol:
Ok so me and OH had a heated chat last night LOL about TTC
He is very much a morning man for (bding) and i dont really mind am not fussed but i said evening is better then i get chance to sleep on in after!
as when i get up i feel it coming out (sorry TMI) so i like to do it at night so i dont have to get up etc
Anyways he said that only something like 5% of mens stuff is acutally sperm the rest if fluid!! so the stuff goes in straight away and the rest is waste!!!
I dont no if i believe him?? so i thought i would check with you ladies 1st LOL
He is very much a morning man for (bding) and i dont really mind am not fussed but i said evening is better then i get chance to sleep on in after!
as when i get up i feel it coming out (sorry TMI) so i like to do it at night so i dont have to get up etc
Anyways he said that only something like 5% of mens stuff is acutally sperm the rest if fluid!! so the stuff goes in straight away and the rest is waste!!!
I dont no if i believe him?? so i thought i would check with you ladies 1st LOL
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Will be interesting to find out the real answer! Lol!
Hate to side with a man but I think he may be right... sorry!
It says that only 2-5 percent is actually sperm but mentions nothing about that going in first and the rest is waste, so you have even more reason to try at night! Lol! Get bd'ing! xx
I have to admit my head says your partners right, but when we were ttc i religiously stayed lyed (sp??) down with my knees up. Like the tesco motto, every little helps;-))))
It's good to know I don't need to lay in one position all night for fear of leakage (teehee) and can just get cleaned up! Woo!
Of course we wont need to worry about this as we'll all be pg this cycle anyway!
Good luck hun xx
plus most sperm will go through the cervix immediately - but keeping your bum elevated is an extra to make sure you get as many swimmers through as possible - it's also useful if you have a tilted cervix/uterus as the sperm might not hit your cervix immediately in that case
if you can manage to stay lying down for 30mins after then you should be fine
without repeating what others have said but basically that why the ewcm is important cos once his swimmers are in all the decent/speedy active ones swim into your ewcm mega quick which enables them to reach into your cervix. The rest that comes out is the rest of the "not so good sperm" and fluid.
P.s a little pma... I got my bfp 2 months off the pill, always went to the loo within 5-10 minutes after and didnt do any hip raises. We Bd both evening and morning depending on the mood we we're in!!
the most important thing is to relax!! good luck
Caz 6+3 xxx
[Modified by: Caza82 on November 20, 2009 04:50 PM]