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FAO xxxkayxxx
I didn't wana bust in on EmmaA's post but wanted to say hi as your experience is almost spot on to mine!
I found out in was 6 weeks preg at the beg of june, had a scan at 6 1/2 weeks, 7 1/2 & 8 1/2 weeks where we saw beans hb, i too found out at our 12 week sacn that bean had died at about 8 weeks and had med managment in hospital. I passed everything that day and lucikly didn't have mcuh pain, in fact i was in more pain the day after! Are baby too was planned and we were ttc for about 10 months. We are now on cycle 3 ttc again - my cycles have been a bit long since as my body's taken a while to adjust.
So anyways, just to say hi really! and that things do definitely get better! well easier anyway. I still feel v bitter when i hear of anyone i know getting pg and different times of the month are harder. If you don't mind me asking, apart from the pain how did you find the med management? not many people on here have had it? i chose it because i don;t come round very well after operations and it scared me. I would like to hope that i'd never be unforunate enough to have a mc/mmc again but i'm not sure i could handle that experinece again...
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[Modified by: rocky_kiz on 25 November 2009 13:25:17 ]
I found out in was 6 weeks preg at the beg of june, had a scan at 6 1/2 weeks, 7 1/2 & 8 1/2 weeks where we saw beans hb, i too found out at our 12 week sacn that bean had died at about 8 weeks and had med managment in hospital. I passed everything that day and lucikly didn't have mcuh pain, in fact i was in more pain the day after! Are baby too was planned and we were ttc for about 10 months. We are now on cycle 3 ttc again - my cycles have been a bit long since as my body's taken a while to adjust.
So anyways, just to say hi really! and that things do definitely get better! well easier anyway. I still feel v bitter when i hear of anyone i know getting pg and different times of the month are harder. If you don't mind me asking, apart from the pain how did you find the med management? not many people on here have had it? i chose it because i don;t come round very well after operations and it scared me. I would like to hope that i'd never be unforunate enough to have a mc/mmc again but i'm not sure i could handle that experinece again...
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[Modified by: rocky_kiz on 25 November 2009 13:25:17 ]
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i only had the oral part of the medical management it worked within a few hours of taking it so i didnt need the vaginal tablets. id had pain and bleading for a few days before the tablet and was really painfull.1000x worse than period pains and bleeding was really heavy i have to to a pg test at the end of the week and jus hope its negative. do want to ttc again but jus really scared of this happening again . feel so empty now xxx
[Modified by: xxxkayxxx on November 25, 2009 04:05 PM]
As for ttc again, everyone on this forum will be scared sweet and i always say that being in here takes away all the excitment when we do get our healthy and successful bFP's cus we'll all be worrying! but it's the only way of getting our families we all want! You have to do what feels right for you. we ttc again straight away and now on 3rd cycle, due to OV at weekend, i would've loved a BFP straight away and it is possible but in hindsight i think a couple of months in betwen has helped with my head (although aBFP would've been fantastic!) i feel in a better place now to cope with it when it happens. Chin up hun, it does get easier!
Are you doing anything nice for xmas? xx
ospital 1 doc said wait and other said can straight away? good look for this month hun xx
ps.worried bout the babys testing results though:\?