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How much do you tell you OH's about your cycle?
just as the title says really, how much do you tell your OH's about your cycle and went is the right time, etc.
I think I have told mine too much!!! I was very excited to get my first smiley face on the CBD OPK on Sunday morning and showed hubby!!! Told him he would be getting lucky tonight!! ; )
Well, worst thing I could have done!!! I have put too much pressure on him probably!!! cos he is avoiding BDing now..... not intentionally cos he wants to start a family, but obviously just got a little "Stage Fright" ARGH!!! So cross withmyself for doing it!!! I knew I shouldn't have!!!
Any advice...have we missed the opportunity now, we BD'd yesterday morning, I got smiley face yesterday, will we be too late if we BD tonight?
I think I have told mine too much!!! I was very excited to get my first smiley face on the CBD OPK on Sunday morning and showed hubby!!! Told him he would be getting lucky tonight!! ; )
Well, worst thing I could have done!!! I have put too much pressure on him probably!!! cos he is avoiding BDing now..... not intentionally cos he wants to start a family, but obviously just got a little "Stage Fright" ARGH!!! So cross withmyself for doing it!!! I knew I shouldn't have!!!
Any advice...have we missed the opportunity now, we BD'd yesterday morning, I got smiley face yesterday, will we be too late if we BD tonight?
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U've still got plenty of time, when u get your smiley face its telling u that u should ovulate in the next 24-36 hours so defo get BDing tonight and tomorrow!! Good luck xx
Wombat Girl, We last BD'd on Friday morning then sunday! So hopefully if we BD tonight as well, we may just hit the jackpot.
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[Modified by: NicolaH on November 30, 2009 03:49 PM]
He know's about charting and FF and how things work and my stuff's by the side of the bed and I think he does have a look at that. To stop 'putting pressure on him, I just said that it's actually much harder than you think to get pregnant and it seems to have worked!
We occasionally talk about names and prams and stuff, but not in too much detail.
Fingers crossed for you tonight NicolaH
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PS Loving the influx of rude veg on here too!
Rude Veg was being used in TTC whilst I was over in "Planning" so couldn't use it then, but now we are TTC I can!!!
However, when I got my surge this month, I was about to go out for a meeting and told him I needed him quickly. He joked halfway through that he felt a bit under pressure, but managed 'to deliver' hahaha.
I think it's a bit strange for them to get their heads around it all to start with, I know I didn't like saying too much in the beginning for the same reason - that I didn't want to scare him off. If I did blurt anything out, it was through excitement, like Wombat Girl.
Fab news about the smiley face! I think it means you'll ov within 24-48 (usually 36) hours and the egg can live 12-24 hrs after that. The fact you bd yday and got your smiley yday is excellent - it means the swimmers will be waiting for the egg once it's relased! You still have more time tho if you want to get in a little more bding.
And don't worry hon - men soon get over the stage fright if they see they're missing out!
Best of luck! x
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The funniest thing is, I bought him some zinc the other day expecting him to makybe take it when i was around just to please me and forget about it the other days. Then last night i was pretending to be asleep and i heard him bring them up to bed with his sandwich supper hehe.
good luck everyone xxx
He knew when I got my peak on CBFM, I got my first one last Thursday and we fell out Thursday nightso didn't get to BD, got my peak again Friday but didn't speak to him until Fri night, after we had made up and BD'd he was like please tell me you're still on peak He also knows when I'm due on (and can tell if AF is coming) And he's a bit of a bugger for helping me SS because he gets excited x
i remeber the rude fruit from when i was in planning too! i'll have to have a look on google for a good one to use!
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