ugh i feel sick with jealousy!
a girl i work with (and really like by the way) has announced today that she is pregnant... i am so so happy for her... genuinley so, but i feel sick with jealousy for myself. i know she has been trying for ages, but i want a baby... i just ache to be pregnant and be a mummy!
is it just me? we seem to be really succesful on TTC chat at the moment so i hope i am not the only 1 left!!feel really really miserable today
is it just me? we seem to be really succesful on TTC chat at the moment so i hope i am not the only 1 left!!feel really really miserable today
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Sending you tons of baby dust and lots of hugs!!!Keep your chin up xXx
You are not alone (((hugs))) we will have our bfp's very soon xx
Month 16 TTC #2
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what a horrible person i am... i really am happy for her though!
told hubs and he said... "well... now we know you cycle has settled down we better get trying ready for ovulation hadn't we..." and i felt so guilty... thats how much i have drummed it in to him. he is so determined it will be this month!
The good thing is that you are happy for her too, so dont beat yourself up about it hun. If you ever wanna chat you know where I am xx
it doesn't help that there are people out there who assume that hubs and i should be PG by now as we got married in july.
not even just older generation - just want people to give me a break so i can do it quietly and then surprise them when it does happen
You're not alone! It will happen for you - sending you (((((hugs)))) and lots of PMA.
I know how you feel, my friend got pregnant last year as a drunken mistake, then decided not to keep the babby - at least it was a happy suprise for the girl at work.
Don't feel guilty about feeling jealous hun, its only natural xxx
i KNOW this girl has been trying all those things and it was just a matter of time... she did nothing different this month!
it has made me feel better to get it off my chest!
I'm now back in the TTC category and want it so much!!! But the ladies in here are fabulous and give out lots of PMA!!
Good luck, hope you get your BFP soon xx
Dotty - I'm so sorry for what happened - I can't begin to imagine what you went through and what you are going through. I hope that you have success soon.
Mrs Beck, don't worry, coming on here is where you can be truthful and not be judged (unlike other forums where I got slated for what I'm about to say). My sil fell pregnant (due in March) and as happy and pleased I am for them both, when I found out, I had a smile plastered on my face and as soon as I got in the car I wept and was unconsolable. My oh didn't understand, in the end I was sat in a graveyard (I always find them peaceful and you won't get distrurbed) crying to my mum (I'm in my 30's). I couldn't see her for a while, but everytime I went to MIL she was soooo excited about her first grandchild and I had to sit and look at and discuss prams and baby stuff with her - it broke my heart. But although I do have the occasional pang, it gets getter and I have the excuse to buy baby things for her.
Fingers crossed for everyone in here and our time will come!!
xxx
You're right, our time will come and hopefully it will be this month!! Baby dust to all xx
I am 4 months pregnant. My sister in law has been trying for a baby for longer than we were and desperatly wants to be a mummy. She will make such a fantastic mum and I was really nervous about telling her when we found out. I phoned her straight away as she is also my best friend.
When I told her she went very quiet, said congratulations and passed the phone to her brother. She text me that night saying how happy she was for us but also how jealous she felt and that she just wanted time to get her head around it.
I felt so bad as I know she wants it so much.
Now her and her husband are still trying, she comes over every few weeks to see bump and has brought loads of baby stuff for us. Its taken her a while but she is now just as excited as I am.
I guess what I am trying to say is, Dont feel bad for feeling jealous. Its so natural and understandable.
I hope you all get BFP's really soon xxx