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Going to test .... UPDATED dream is over!
After all the stress and worry this week I have definitely decided to test tomorrow!!
Feel very nervous as I'm not sure how I'll cope with a BFN. It's been lovely thinking that I could possibly be pregnant this month as all the symptoms were good, just not sure now.
Anyway fingers crossed but I'm not too hopeful xx
It was a BFN! I know this may sound stupid but I hate myself so much for not being able to get pregnant! I feel totally inadequate. My poor OH tries to console me and I feel like I should be consoling him but I can't do it whole heartedly. I just know that we are never going to be able to have children and it will be all my fault.
Sorry to put a downer on things, and thank you for all your good luck messages.
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Feel very nervous as I'm not sure how I'll cope with a BFN. It's been lovely thinking that I could possibly be pregnant this month as all the symptoms were good, just not sure now.
Anyway fingers crossed but I'm not too hopeful xx
It was a BFN! I know this may sound stupid but I hate myself so much for not being able to get pregnant! I feel totally inadequate. My poor OH tries to console me and I feel like I should be consoling him but I can't do it whole heartedly. I just know that we are never going to be able to have children and it will be all my fault.
Sorry to put a downer on things, and thank you for all your good luck messages.
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Just logged on to see if you had tested so sorry to hear it was a BFN, whens your af due? if she hasnt arrived maybe it could be a shy bean.
It is disheartening hun, how long have you been trying?
Chin up and try not to let it ruin things xx
We will be going to the dr's Feb time to start tests if no BFP before then.
Sorry again, spend a couple of days spoiling yourself xx
Broody Beth do you know what the tests at the doctors entails because I'm really worried about it?
I need to register at the docs because we moved so have no idea what my doctor will be like.. Do you know what your doctor is like? If you feel comfortable talking to him/her I think it will make it easier. I bled for 3 weeks back in April time and saw my old Dr then but didn't really like him and he only gave me tablets to stop the bleeding and I didn't feel like I could say anything else to him if you know what I mean?
I often have a cry to my OH, yesterday was a very big cry and I feel bad about crying to him but if I didn't I think I would be in a nastty mood so I just let it all out.
Sorry this has turned into a massive post, If you're really late you could go to the dr's now and let them know whats happening. Even if they say to go away and see what happens at lease they will be aware xx
I am currently waiting for AF (due Thurs) but have no hope this time as have had AF cramps for several days already.
I went to the docs a few weeks ago: OH got booked in for a hospital appointment to get his sperm checked (he went last week - and they don't do it at the local hospital either, so it meant he had to take a whole morning off!). Anyway, that's done and now we wait for the results. For me, I had to see the practise nurse on Friday and had blood tests for progesterone. Supposed to be CD21, but my cycle is short so CD19 instead. Also I had to have other tests for STIs. Not particularly impressed as they don't test OH for these (why not?). At least it's over now and I just have to wait for the results. I assume this would be the same first steps for you if you decide to go to get checked out.
Good luck and lots of baby dust. Here's hoping for a lucky few weeks for everyone!!