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Thumb sucking
Hi Girls,
My LO is 10+1 and I just would like some advice on thumb sucking. Its really something I didnt want to let LO do...however like with a lot of things...its easier said than done when you dont have a LO. My main reasons for him not wanting to suck his thumb....
My niece is 13 and still sucks her thumb and is so goofy from it, that she was getting bullied until SIL got a brace sorted.....but she is still sucking and orthdontist said they will go back if she doesnt stop.
Also I find it a little weird when you see adults still sucking thier thumb and twiddling thier hair (I know that this will offend some people reading this as I know lots of people do it....but I am just being honest that I find it a little weird for full grown women/men to do it....I dont mind others doing it, just not my son as an adult)
HOWEVER all that said and done.....he loves sucking on his hands and fingers....which i think is totally normal for his age.....for those that have had thumb suckers.....how did you manage to stop it when they got older? At the min if he is doing it for comfort (not just exploring I dont mind that) I take his hands out his mouth and put his dummy in...hopefully I will be able to take his dummy away later...which I wont be able to his thumb. (I also said I would never give a dummy..haha so im not totally ridged in my ways) So for the mums of thumb suckers.....any advice on it if he ends up doing it anyway...how do you stop it come a certain age...........are you going to try stop it before adult teeth come through?
I hope this has come across as me enquiring and not an attack...
Thanks x
editted as I just wanted to add....I dont think it is weird that LO's suck thier thumb....I think it is super cute. The adult thing is from a few friends I know who are secret 'thumb suckers' and we went away with friends last year from new years for a week and one of the couples were snuggled up on a sofa both sucking thier thumbs and she was twiddling her hair....he is 40 and she is 27.......it just weirded me out a little.
[Modified by: akaLadyK on 13 December 2009 09:20:37 ]
My LO is 10+1 and I just would like some advice on thumb sucking. Its really something I didnt want to let LO do...however like with a lot of things...its easier said than done when you dont have a LO. My main reasons for him not wanting to suck his thumb....
My niece is 13 and still sucks her thumb and is so goofy from it, that she was getting bullied until SIL got a brace sorted.....but she is still sucking and orthdontist said they will go back if she doesnt stop.
Also I find it a little weird when you see adults still sucking thier thumb and twiddling thier hair (I know that this will offend some people reading this as I know lots of people do it....but I am just being honest that I find it a little weird for full grown women/men to do it....I dont mind others doing it, just not my son as an adult)
HOWEVER all that said and done.....he loves sucking on his hands and fingers....which i think is totally normal for his age.....for those that have had thumb suckers.....how did you manage to stop it when they got older? At the min if he is doing it for comfort (not just exploring I dont mind that) I take his hands out his mouth and put his dummy in...hopefully I will be able to take his dummy away later...which I wont be able to his thumb. (I also said I would never give a dummy..haha so im not totally ridged in my ways) So for the mums of thumb suckers.....any advice on it if he ends up doing it anyway...how do you stop it come a certain age...........are you going to try stop it before adult teeth come through?
I hope this has come across as me enquiring and not an attack...
Thanks x
editted as I just wanted to add....I dont think it is weird that LO's suck thier thumb....I think it is super cute. The adult thing is from a few friends I know who are secret 'thumb suckers' and we went away with friends last year from new years for a week and one of the couples were snuggled up on a sofa both sucking thier thumbs and she was twiddling her hair....he is 40 and she is 27.......it just weirded me out a little.
[Modified by: akaLadyK on 13 December 2009 09:20:37 ]
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Our mum tried everything when she was younger to get her to stop but nothing worked. Like you say, you can't take a thumb away.
I wouldn't worry too much at this stage. If thumb sucking does become a habit then my advice would be to try to stop it at an earlier age, like at the time you would remove a dummy. That way the child won't become reliant on it and will be young enough to forget.
Hope this helps xx
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My lo is a thumb sucker and to be honest i much prefer this than a dummy. He only does it to settle himself at night and its a lot better than keep replacing dummy in the night. We dont use dummies anymore and i personally think he will grow out of it as he gets older, but obviously i will address it at about 2years if he doesnt.
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I have a friend who's 27 like me and still sucks her thumb, and yes I think it's weird. For now though I think making an issue out of something that's so comforting for her would be cutting off my nose to spite my face. I'll cross that bridge when I come to it! Hoping she'll just grow out of it.
A friend of mine and my sister-in-law still suck their thumb at moments of stress. I do find it a bit odd, but I'm sure I have some equally weird comfort habits, so I don't comment!
The dummy did bring it's own problems - he got v attached to the dummy, and wouldn't sleep without it. We got him off it at just under 3yrs, using toy-bribery lol!
If he had sucked his thumb, I don't think we would have managed to stop it at this age - and the dummy had already slightly affected his teeth. The dentist noticed it - she said the adult teeth would grow through normally, but I dread to think what affect if he had been on the thumb instead of the dummy!
Tbh I really don't like seeing older children with dummies or sucking their thumbs.
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Have you thought about using a reward chart, she can have a sticker for each complete day she doesnt do it and when she gets so many stickers she can have a reward. Might be worth a try, i would also tell her to stop everytime you saw her doing it. Although im sure youve probably tried that!
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(ok and this is going to sound awful......)
In the end she put the stuff that makes you stop biting your nails on her thumbs......however niece is a lot older but it worked after set number 4 of braces.....(she was so bad she would brake her braces on purpose and pretend it was an accident...she has train tracks now to stop her braking them just so she could thumb suck)
Stop nail biting stuff never worked for my sis, she just got used to the taste but it's certainly worth a try xx