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Do you have a end to ttc???
OK as this is my 2nd OH and i have decided to stop ttc in sept and if i am not preg then i will go back on the pill and we will save for our wedding
We will be stopping as my boy will be 4 by then and by the time a baby would of been born he will be almost 5 and we have said that i do not wish to start all over again or have a big age gap. I feel ok about it but i really want another child so going to have to get preg before sept..... Givin us 9 Try's to get pregg's
I AM going to have more than 1 child and i will get preg before sept (i really hope)
Do any of you ladys have a cut off date in mind?????
Would you stop ttc ???? If it was just me i would ttc for ever ;\)
We will be stopping as my boy will be 4 by then and by the time a baby would of been born he will be almost 5 and we have said that i do not wish to start all over again or have a big age gap. I feel ok about it but i really want another child so going to have to get preg before sept..... Givin us 9 Try's to get pregg's
I AM going to have more than 1 child and i will get preg before sept (i really hope)
Do any of you ladys have a cut off date in mind?????
Would you stop ttc ???? If it was just me i would ttc for ever ;\)
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Some of you may say that is mad, but we would both love to have our own LO at the wedding, but I dont actually want to be pregnant at the wedding.
If we have not been successful by Jan/Feb, then we will stop until Dec 2010.
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[Modified by: VWGirl on December 16, 2009 12:38 PM]
i would quite happly just have Lennon,i can just borrow my nephews if i need some more
i had my son at my wedding and i loved him being there
good luck chick xx
Once our daughter goes to school at 4 and a half I will be going out to work and once I am back at work thats me lol
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This is my first though so perhaps would feel different if we already had a lo
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If I could go back now and change that I would... I understand why as I ws getting married abroad and wanted to get in to dress and of course money..
I also understand your reasons but after this long I do wonder what would have happened if I had started earlier and not waited...
Too many regrets really ..
But I had a fantastic wedding !!
Congrats eliviajen on your bfp, what a lovely x-mas pressie!
I wonder myself when we will give up.
On one hand, Im desperete for a baby and cant imagine myself without children
On the another hand, i wonder if im strong enough that if it doesnt happen naturally, will i be able to through other processes to have a child.
I do find it very hard that it hasnt happened yet and a day doesnt go past where i dont dream of having my baby. I really dont know how long it would take to admit defeat, im only 25 so its not like there isnt years ahead of me. I really admire some of the ladies on here like gembags, LDOM,Grudie and orangepants(just some names that stick out to me, i k now theres many other ladies who do the same) who manage to keep not only their pma going but also manage to give support to countless people on here.
I hope that if it doesnt happen soon, i will be as strong as you ladies and never give up on my dream bfp )
That said because we are trying now and its only MONTH 1 we have no plans for 2010 as I dont want to book a holiday for the future and then have to cancel it.
I think we would try indefinately in the end to be able to have the chance to become a parent as trying for baby No 1 and we want at the most 2.
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I am in two minds really. On one hand I want a baby so much that I think it would kill me to stop TTC but I also applied to Oxford to study for a DPhil so if I get in then we might have to stop for about half a year just so I finished my taught courses
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I've just booked a few days in New York as it's somthing DH and I have always wanted to do, and thiw will (hopefully) be our last chance to do it with lo's
Good kuck everyone
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In seot i would of been ttc for 25 months and if it was going to happen it would of done. I also dont think i could take BFN or seeing a BFP only for AF to show a week later ever again.
Although i may need BE rehab
gems x