Problems trying for a baby
Hey all, my wife and I have been trying for a child for the past 4 years, we have tried everything and it's never happened although she has suffered 2 miscarriages at very early stages, I went for a test to check my swimmers were swimming right and I got the all clear, I told my wife this the other day and now she's gone mad saying it's all her and she doesn't function right and got all upset and now refuses to go to docs and get herself checked. I told her she will be fine but I'm not so sure, what are the chances she will have problems or that she will be completely fine??
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You don't say what age you and your wife are, but once a woman reaches 35 her fertility starts to decrease and so you may need a little help concieving.
The only advise I can really give you is to be as supportive as you obviously are being already, make sure she knows it is not her fault but that if you want a child you will need to seek a little help. Give her a little time and make sure she understands you aren't blaming her for anything, you are simply trying to find a way to get the baby you both want x
I agree with what the other ladies on here have said. It is obvious that you are a supportive husband, just by coming on here proves that. Would she consider going to the doc's if you went with her? Explaining to her that it's both of you going through this process and that you want to be there through each and every step, even before getting pregnant, may just reassure her. You've probably already done this though...
Does she use any sites like this one? The support that everyone gives on here may help her as well.
Wishing you both all the best for 2010 and hope your baby wish is answered. R x