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A little upset
Hey Ladies,
Well had a horrible last few days, ill start at the begining.
Did a test on friday and it was a BFN, i was so upset and to make it all worse my partner was on his 2 weeks away for work. I called him and he broke down, ive never hear him cry like that before. He keeps blaming himself (im crying while writing this).
Saturday morning i got up to a knock on the door, it was a lady in tears saying she run over my dog. Kass passed away that afternoon.
Today (sunday) I went to a friends house for some drinks (i needed one after the horrible few days ive had) I was talking to a friend about ttc and this random guy turned around and called me a fat C-word and thats why my fat ass couldnt get pregnant.
So now im at home crying my eyes out wondering what i ever did to deserve all this heart ache and hurt.. AF is mia...
Sorry its not a good post just needed to vent xx
Well had a horrible last few days, ill start at the begining.
Did a test on friday and it was a BFN, i was so upset and to make it all worse my partner was on his 2 weeks away for work. I called him and he broke down, ive never hear him cry like that before. He keeps blaming himself (im crying while writing this).
Saturday morning i got up to a knock on the door, it was a lady in tears saying she run over my dog. Kass passed away that afternoon.
Today (sunday) I went to a friends house for some drinks (i needed one after the horrible few days ive had) I was talking to a friend about ttc and this random guy turned around and called me a fat C-word and thats why my fat ass couldnt get pregnant.
So now im at home crying my eyes out wondering what i ever did to deserve all this heart ache and hurt.. AF is mia...
Sorry its not a good post just needed to vent xx
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im so sorry for you loss, its so hard losing a pet. big hugs.xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Ignore the tw@t, its none of his bl00dy buisness.
Lets hope af stays away and you get your bfp.
Was it today she was due?- I got bfn at 13dpo when I was pg with Grace so don't give up yet honey.
H.xxx
what an arrogant pr*ck!!! people like that don't deserve to be let out!!! I'm so so sorry to hear about your dog sweetie.
As the other ladies have said it's not over until AF arrives and even if she does, it's not the end of the world hun, it does feel like it sometimes but there is always next time.
I know we will get our BFP'S hun, we just have to have a little patience (so much easier saying that than doing it!) The best things are worth waiting for and in the mean time we are all hear if you need us (and my email buttons active if you ever want a chat) xx
I am utterly shocked by what that man said. How dare he! No one should comment on the way you look. I am sure it doublely hurt due to your recent disappointment. If I am feeling rough I have a long hot bath with a good book. Makes me feel worlds better.
Hugs to you.
Poz xxxx
Just wanted to send you a big hug - useless as it seems.
Hope you feeling a bit better soon.
xxx
as for the t*sser I think siany said it all really.
Gxx
What a horrible horrible man, it's terrible there are people in the world who act like that! Makes you so angry!!
Hope you are feeling a little bit better, life can be so cruel but I have a quote that I say to myself when I get really low or I have had an awful day..... 'What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger.'
BIG HUGS and keep your chin up xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Keep strong hun, you will get your BFN and you and your OH will celebrate eventually xx
I hope you do get ur bfp to cheer urself up! H x
i wasn't gonna say that lol! oh well mia is still good hun, you should test again end of the week if af mia still. x
It is quite positive that your af is still mia. This might be your month, I got my bfp with my ds when I was 10 days late so there's still hope!
Take care, I hope these posts have made you feel better!
xx
Don't have much to add to what the others have said. Sending you lots of hugs and keeping my fingers crossed that you get that BFP.
Also know what it feels like to be told that I am too big to get pg. GP told me: she said she won't prescribe me any more pills because I am so big that won't fall pg anyway. well, that is when we started TTC LOL
xx
You will get that BFP soon hun, dont put yourself down!!! The GP also tells me i am too "big" to get pregnant but then why is there some people about 4 times the size of me that just pop kids out. My friend is a size 26 and around 18-19 stone and she has got pregnant twice!!! Although she didnt keep them!
Chin up hun xxxx