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For those new to TTC - are you terrified t will never happen
This is totally irrational, and I probably need a good slap but after just 5 weeks of TTC I am terrified I will never get pregnant. Please tell me this is normal? I pretty much think of nothing else but ttc and am sooo scared there might be something wrong with me and I wont get to have a baby. I am not yet using ov sticks etc, gonna wait 3 months before doing that but I cant help thinking that as I'm not a naturally lucky person, and I wont be lucky enough to fall pg. Sorry for the rant girls, but I actually feel a bit better having written my thoughts down (however nutty they are!)
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Im glad seeing it written down has helped you, i spoke with DH and he sort of made me laugh at myself over some of it!
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Each time AF comes I convince myself that I am infertile but I try to stop myself from thinking about that possibility
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babydust to all x
Also had a dodgy kidney a couple of years ago which i've read can cause probs.
I think most people go through this crazy worrying! and the worst thing we can do is look on the internet and have a google and convince ourselves we have all these random problems.
Also i think it's pants we can't get checked at dr's for a year, lol however imagine how many of us nuts they'd have turning up!
i think we all need to give ourselves a talking to, laugh at ourselves and focus on our pma!!
babydust xxx
I always think it's not a God given right to have children but you're lucky when you do, so I've never assumed I'll just be able to conceive. I think I'm more worried about hubby than me as he's been on anti-depressants for over 10 years (trying to come off them slowly now) and I'm so scared it may have affected his fertility.
I don't know, I just try to remember that women get pregnant all the time with no problems....and that can be me too
We have only just started (in my first 2ww as we speak) and I am already convinced we will have problems! I have no reason to think we will have problems but my brain keeps going over and over it.
I feel like a bit of a nutter as I should at least give it a couple of months before I worry!!
at least we are not alone in out nutty thoughts x
I have one dd already, but she was an accident (a wanted one but still) So i am TERRIFIED about this ttc lark when we start in 6 months :S Im scared i wont get pregnant again and im scared that there will be something wrong with the baby because we are doing it the right way this time :S Your not alone!
[Modified by: cplusplus on January 04, 2010 10:20 PM]
[Modified by: cplusplus on January 04, 2010 10:20 PM]
Are you on the you and your wedding forum as well? Just thought i recognised the name
Still nothing , then if I do get PG I will worry about MC as I had one just after I got married when i fell straight away (god knows how).
Then whne they do come its a whole life time of worrying.
Everyting is going in to it this year no holidays and all our money is being put towards having a baby. This has to be the year as I am 35 and hubby is 41.
C - congratulations on your wedding x
Magpie: I stopped my pill at the same time you did. How long was it before your cycle came back !
But, having said that, we are slightly older than your average ttc couple, so I put it down to that!
GC from due in Aug but I saw this on my home page and wanted to add something, hope you dont mind
Me and OH had been tryin for 12 months and I was so upset - thought we were going to have to go through all sorts of treatment. So I'd booked a doctors appt before xmas to discuss fertility tests and then realised I was 2 days late - turned out to be my confirmation appt and then getting referred to MW
Fingers crossed for you all in 2010 - I'm sure it will definately happen soon
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MrsMel, it took 8 weeks for me to get my first AF, and I am now on CD39 I think with no sign of AF (and not preg!). I am hoping it will settle down soon! Are you still a bit irregular then? xx
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