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Fed up...
CD1 for me today so on to month 7 ttc for a second time... sorry but just feeling SO fed up, its hard work with everyone around be getting pg... feel so crap. argh. does anyone else on here have an oh/dh that smokes???? xxx
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I totally get why you are so fed up.
My hubby doesn't smoke so can't help on that front. My hubby does have an awful diet with no nutrients. I had a real go at him and said that I wasn't drinking, cut down caffine, taking vitamins and eating healthy so the least he could do was drink some water, take some vitamins and eat some seeds! After the ectopic I think it hit him he could have done more.
He's still not as good as good be but does make more effort than he did x x
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Thanks Rainbow hunny, havent got any choc in (hubby eats it all!) so one would be great right now!!!! xxx
Thanks Rainbow hunny, havent got any choc in (hubby eats it all!) so one would be great right now!!!! xxx
I'm very impressed you get vitamins and healthy eating going on. I don't stand a hope and get shouted at when I try and 'hide' vegetables in things!! BOYS! x
Hugs for you my flower xxxxxxx
Im sending you some PMA & well soon get started on mission lurve bug ok well get you dh in tip top condition drug him with vitamins & get some top swimmers were they need to be.
THIS WILL BE YOUR LAST 2WW!!!
Hugs xxx
Love that you're drugging your hubby, its given me a few ideas!! xx
ooohhh did have another break through alst night and hubby has agreed to only smoke a pipe when he's at home so a lot less nicotine will be going into him! yay! xxx
sorry AF got you - shes such a biaaatttcchh isnt she!!!
hopefully we'll all have February love bugs instead!!!!
even though we're not officially ttc yet - since new year my hubbie is now on a drinking ban (well apart from last wed as it was his bday and he literally poured 6 pints down is neck in the hour we were at the curry house!) - ive also got him some multivitamins and zinc tablets. but he forgets to take them so every morning i feel like his mom sticking tablets in his mouth !!!
I also have to "hide" veg in his food. Gosh it sounds like I am describing a 10 year old not a 34 year old!
he did smoke about 20 a day (gave up when i was pregnant last time - but started again)
he's now cut down to about 5 day and doesnt smoke in the house or near me. When we are ready to TTC again he is going to give up again - in fact he's gradually reducing what he smokes now, so hopefully sooner than that.
we'll have to stock up on the innocent bottles - I have one every morning at work - they are so tasty!!!!
good news on the pipe - has he tried the inhaler thing? that really helped my hubbie last time.
hope your blood tests go okay
x x x
Might have to try the innocent smooties we get fresh oj & pineapple juice & oh is very good with fruit & eats the veg that I serve up every night!!
Think I may get him on the wellman vits too as they have zinc & all the other bits that he & his swimmers need.
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I was convinced we'd done it last month so know how crap you must feel.
Neither me or my hubby smoke so can't help there but the pipe sounds like a good idea.
Loving the naughty words MP! xx
I have put him on multivitamins now, seeing that he needs to do something as well. I am not gonna deprive him of his coke though, he has one bottle a week. I am trying to get him to eat veg, but kinda giving up.
When pregnant with Michael I had a major go at him for not being able to drink on my hen night, basicly sitting at home with some friends. He was going out, came home absolutely wasted and was hugging the bathroom the next day. (I needed it as well with morning sickness) Neither of us are big drinkers, but I was complaining that I had no choice about it, whilst he had. That my life changed so drasticly, but his state the same. So he told me he would cut out alcohol completely till MIchael was born and he did. I told him next pregnancy he would have to do the same.
Can you do something like that for the smoking?
A+R i convinced myself too the first cycle and said i would NOT do it again, but i fellh ook line and sinker this one
Breighlin i feel for you on that one, hubby's fairly reasonable but the smoking is a big thing for him so just getting him to do that is a major thing!!! he hardly drinks as well atm so i think i'm doing pretty well! though i think i'd prefer the alcohol... hhmmmm.
Spoke to my nice GP today and i'm getting more anti b's to take but they are diff and are ones to be given if the body doesn;t take or react to the ones i have now taken twice! so fingers crossed, after that they will then check my hormone levels, bit pants i'll ahve to wait a bit longer though! xx
Awww, sorry you've been down. I have been a bit fed up too this week (I could PMT for England this week!). TTC is a hard hard road. They don't tell you that in school do they? Oh no, it's all "boys will impregnate you just by looking at you".
If it helps, I have this running battle with my hubby, trying to get him to take vits. He has the man version of Pregnacare and EVERY EVENING makes a big song and dance about how difficult they are to swallow. Baby. And here I am, not had a drink for six odd months, cut right down on caffeine (sob), and peeing on a stick 10 days out of every 30.
Men are rubbish.