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Feeling very isolated... any young mums want to chat?
hello,
ever since i found out i was pregnant i have felt isolated because my friends who i thought were gtreat friends have faded away...
then when my best friend found out she was pregnant i thought it was great cos i would have someone to talk to etc. unfortunately she has lost her baby so our friendship has again faded and we are no longer talking.
i have also just moved away from all family and friends cos my husband has got a new job...
i am only 19 and i find it hard to make friends... and i just wanted someone to talk to?
if anyone is interested could you message me?
or leave an e-mail address and i will email you
thanks
becky xx
ever since i found out i was pregnant i have felt isolated because my friends who i thought were gtreat friends have faded away...
then when my best friend found out she was pregnant i thought it was great cos i would have someone to talk to etc. unfortunately she has lost her baby so our friendship has again faded and we are no longer talking.
i have also just moved away from all family and friends cos my husband has got a new job...
i am only 19 and i find it hard to make friends... and i just wanted someone to talk to?
if anyone is interested could you message me?
or leave an e-mail address and i will email you
thanks
becky xx
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gud luck huni x )
I am now 21 weeks pregnant with number 3 :P The girls dad isnt around but my current partner is in the process of adopting the girls and obv is daddy to number 3! I know how you feel when i got pregnant with the twins my friends were all so excited but then when i couldnt go out as much being tired and things i got excluded once i got near my due date my friends were a bit more interested and they were all over the girls when they were born but once they realised that they ate crapped and cried and nothing else they wernt as keen and i couldnt go out obv so they dissapeared again! It took a couple of months to adjust to the girls in my life but i loved my new life and my partner was around from the girls been 4 weeks old I started taking them to groups for mums and babies and thats how i made friends and also at work because a lot of ppl at work have kids too!
Maybe try a group for young mums to be its easier that way because you have a natural thing in common Hope you feel better and feel free to email me anytime my email is open on here x
im 22 with a 6month old little boy.. imyself am in the same situation as you me and my partner was trying for a baby for 3 year so when we found out we was over the moon but same as u old friends faded and i grew up... hope to chat soon sam xxx
im around if you want to chat. xx
Gemma
26ish weeks pregnant with my first baby, and the first of my friends to be preggers. It's hard because the only one who I thought would be better than the rest and not fade away has moved to America!
I know what you mean about feeling isolated. I have my hubby, but obviously he's never carried a baby so though he's supportive, he doesn't quite get it. My friends all want to go out and do things like get drunk or go clubbing and I'm so tired I need to be in bed by 9! I know it will be worse when I've got LO because I won't even be able to hang out with them during the day going to the cinema or bowling or whatever they want to do as money will be really tight!
Anyway, I understand. If you want to chat, please email me...
I got pregnant at 16 (tut!), and gave birth when I was 17, my daughter is now 8 and 1/2 months old and I hardly see any of my friends. I've even been told by one of my friends that I'm boring now because I don't go out and drink myself silly, and I don't have crazy wild house parties anymore.
You'll find new friends who have children of their own, they may not be your age, but you'll have atleast one thing in common with them.
I'm here if you would like to chat...?
xxx