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help? x
yeah.. im 16 
had unprotected sex with someone im not even with 
and on saturday did a shop bought test, it showed up negative.. then yesterday i did a hospital one, which said positive.... and today, to make sure again because i didnt believe the first one, did another shop bought and this time there was a faint positive line, but it was there i feel like i imagined seeing that line there, but mum saw it too, im not imagining it . My mum told me it was a good idea for me to come on here, she said you would all help. Don't know what to do! or think.. all i've done is cry... the dad doesn't even want to be involved as he said today wants me to get an abortion.. 
had unprotected sex with someone im not even with and on saturday did a shop bought test, it showed up negative.. then yesterday i did a hospital one, which said positive.... and today, to make sure again because i didnt believe the first one, did another shop bought and this time there was a faint positive line, but it was there i feel like i imagined seeing that line there, but mum saw it too, im not imagining it . My mum told me it was a good idea for me to come on here, she said you would all help. Don't know what to do! or think.. all i've done is cry... the dad doesn't even want to be involved as he said today wants me to get an abortion.. 0
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I am a mother and would never go down the abortion route, but i have a friend who chose that route so like stuckinlimbo said if you need to talk that through as well, even if its just to rule it out, please just say and I will help anyway I can.
The father may come round or may not, but if you have the support of your family then you can do anything; it does not mean your life is over - if anything it is just beginning!
You are very early on in the pregnancy so you have lots of time to think things through and talk them over with your mum. If even a small part of you wants this baby then do not let the father bully you into an abortion; this is your body, your baby and your life - a lot of fathers who don't want the kid will demand an abortion because they should have a say. They have absolutely no say whatsoever whilst you are carrying the child, so don't let yourself be forced into anything you don't want.
I will offer my congratulations because I believe that babies are wonderful things and this could be the start of something amazing for you. Just take your time, decide what is right for you and then grasp it with both hands - we will be here all the way through with you!
Good luck xxx
i was 17 when i got pregnant with ID twins and they are now beautiful 14month olds
xxx