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Hi everyone,
Just wanted to say hi.
I took a pregnancy test today as I am 5 days late but it was negative
I was really surprised by how disappointed I was becuase it wouldn't have been planned and I had convinced myself that it would be positive!
Don't know where AF is...I'll be turning 28 in 2 months and I really feel like I should start making some decisions. I'm happily married for over a year and my husband would love to have children (he turns 30 next year). I keep putting it off becuase there never seems to be a 'right' time but I don't know if there ever will be if it just happened I would be happy but I hate the whole idea of having to make a decision and to plan. Has anyone else ever felt like this?
I have always wanted more than one child with a couple of years in between each before the time I'm in my mid 30s so I feel as if I should start making some decisions - any advice??
Thanks in advance x
Just wanted to say hi.
I took a pregnancy test today as I am 5 days late but it was negative
I was really surprised by how disappointed I was becuase it wouldn't have been planned and I had convinced myself that it would be positive!Don't know where AF is...I'll be turning 28 in 2 months and I really feel like I should start making some decisions. I'm happily married for over a year and my husband would love to have children (he turns 30 next year). I keep putting it off becuase there never seems to be a 'right' time but I don't know if there ever will be if it just happened I would be happy but I hate the whole idea of having to make a decision and to plan. Has anyone else ever felt like this?
I have always wanted more than one child with a couple of years in between each before the time I'm in my mid 30s so I feel as if I should start making some decisions - any advice??
Thanks in advance x
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I understand what you mean. I have a wee boy who is 4 and i'm now finally pregnant with my second. I'm delighted as i'd been trying and hoping for 10 months and getting a negative. But, even so in the back of my mind, i always felt that maybe it just wasn't the right time as other things in life seemed to be in the way but i realised that, in life, there are aalllways things going on and there truly is no "right time" for a baby. If you have always wanted kids and you know you'd be happy if you were pregnant then go for it, start trying(don't be disappointed if it takes a while)and if it's meant to be, it will be. Don't put too much pressure on yourself though. Good luck, keep smiling. xx J xx (p.s i didn't get a positive test til i was 8 days late, if AF doesn't come, then test again)