not sure if i want another one

hey how is everyone not looking to have a baby yet as my little man is only 16 weeks old just not sure if i want one or not just to even things up i know its up to me and my O/H but would like to see what you lot thought as you helped me thank you i would love another one but what i went through with the last one its kind of scarry lol we have 3 lovely children 2 girls and a boy Megan Bay 7 Ella Faith 5 and Ethan Blake 16 weeks