Torn about having a fourth baby
Hi all! I am a mummy of two boys (7 and 4) and a girl (11 months) After having my girl I was convinced that was it, done and dusted, finished, family complete.
However, after going to get the coil fitted, I am now finding myself really wanting a fourth( I honestly didn't want any more-hence having the coil!) It's not even the fact I would like another girl, I just want another.
My partner was very much the same as me but he is saying that if I want one then he is OK with that.
The thing that worries me is that my partner is already working 6 days a week, 12 hours a day to provide for us all and adding another little one to the family will add more strain and preasure on him to maintain financial stability( I stopped working after we had our third) We would also more than likely need to move house and get a seven seater car.
Are there any mummies of four on here who could share their experience of having a fourth please?