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Mourning at 10 wks

I just miscarried my husband and i's honeymoon conceived baby and im heartbroken. I would have been 9wks but measured at 6wks no heart beat and then the pain and blood came. It's not just emotionally exhausting but my body is enduring the worst cramps I've ever had. I was just looking for other women who've experienced something like this or are going through somthing similar to talk to. My husband doesn't know how to help and I don't know how to feel better. 


  • I've wanted a baby for so long, and have been practically raising other people's kids for them. Now I feel like I've been done an injustice by the universe and my own body. My husband has a daughter, from a one night er when he was 19 and she looks like she could be mine so just talking to her makes my heart wrench (don't get me wrong I love her) it's just so hard knowing I almost had a beautiful baby like that and it ended up flushed down a toilet. I haven't slept in 48 hours and I'm in pain. No amount of tylenol will touch it and im allergic to other analgesics. Worse than the physical is the emotional trauma. I don't speak to my own mother and I only have 3 younger brothers that look to me as a mother figure. I'm 23 by the way. I just don't know what to do. And my father was so excited to be a grandpa I haven't been able to speak to him yet. I started miscarrying 3 days ago. I ended up telling his girlfriend to break the bad news. I hate this.
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