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Any Essex Mums?????




Hi, im 33 years old and a mum to 2 girls aged nearly 5 and 3 i also have 3 step children aged 15, 13 and 11 so have a fairly busy life, Would love to hear from you other mums!!!!

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  • Hi maille, you sound like ur kept busy!! AAh congrats on u being a newlywed -- i'm supposed to be getting married soon aswell june/july this year but to be honest it's all a bit unorganised as at first we were going to wait till next year but we thought it would be nice to get hitched b 4 the baby comes as it will be too much hassle trying to orgainse a wedding with a newborn -- another reason is because the other day our son nearly 4 said to me when i was giving his dad a hug "that's my daddy not yours - ur just his girlfriend!!" they think they know it all at that age!! u must get comments from ur girls too as apparently girls can be worse lol!! I'm a legal secretary but have just changed jobs asit was getting too tiring travelling on the train to central london every day so i'm working in ilford at the moment in accounts (dunno how i ended up there my maths is rubbish) Im always up romford( when i get a chance) as i love the shops so much choice up there and i always can find whatever i'm looking for i think romfords better than lakeside!! u must love being so near the shops!!
  • Hi Kerry, Hows you? Yes i am generally kepted very busy (doing nothing i think) Wedding was fantastic and we even took the lo on honeymoon with us, we had a great time. I can understand not wanting the stress of organising your wedding with a newborn but dont you think it would be nice to have all your family in your wedding pics. Kids can say the funniest things cant they. they are great when they do things like that. I couldnt work in accounts either to be honest, my maths not very good never has been. I was a company buyer for a fire protection company worked for them for over 14years, miss it a little i suppose. I dont go romford very often i tend to go to lakeside as i live just outside romford fairly close to m25 so tend to shoot round to lakeside.

    does your little boy go to school?? Hows the pregnancy going? when are you due?

  • Fine thanks - you? aah that sounds nice where did you go on ur honeymoon? yea i suppose it would be nice to have them both in the pictures as opposed to just 1. I can't decide where to go on honeymoon yet i think i need to plan the actual reception first! -- I would love to go to thiland, new york, jamaica or chille but they do say u should use it as a chance to relax and spend time together so i think new york's out of the equation (i just wanted to go shopping really)

    No he's not at school yet but he starts in september he'll only be four and a bit which i think is too young!! I don't think kids should start school until they are five as they are in it till they are 16 so that's long enough but then again with the nursery fees going up and up maybe it's not such a bad thing lol!!

    It's going okay ( i think) i have an appointment at the hospital on friday -- due in september ... But the last few days have felt a bit ill so i hope it goes soon!! where did you have ur daughters?? I had my son in king george and it was not a good experience at all and swore i would never go back there again but i don't think i have any other option as Portland is way too expensive and the idea of giving birth at home does not appeal to me atall-- but hopefully things have changed since i last was there-- even though there is a real shortage of midwifes all over!!

    I suppose ur daughters will go to the same school that will be nice as the elder can keep an eye on her and they can play 2gether as there's only 2 years difference!!-- unfortunatly by the time my youngest is ready to go the eldest will be ready to leave!!
  • Hi kerry sorry for the delay in responding to your last message. Honeymoon was fantastic, we spent two weeks in the rivierra Maya in mexico. I like my weddings pics as it is the only pics we have we all of us together which is nice. I quite fancy going to new york as i would love to go skating in central park.

    My eldest started reception sept 07 and she is not five til march this year. My youngest is starting at the school nursery this sept everyday mornings only. she will be 3 in march. My eldest is doing really well at school she is really enjoying it. Yes both my girls will be in the same school when the youngest is in reception the eldest will be in year one. which will be nice as you said she can look after the little one.

    Glad your pg is going well. I had sickness all the way through with both my girls. I had them in harold wood maternity but if i have another would like a home birth. Kings Georges is supposed to be better than QUEENS!!!!! Portland def. to expensive why do you not fancy a home birth then ????


  • Hi Maille really sorry for late reply been feeling really awful lately!! Anyway how are you??
    ooh mexico must have been really nice was the weather nice when you went??
    I've just got to get used to him going to big school i suppose i still think its a bit young though 4 1/2 to start at 5 would be better i think!!
    At first i felt fine with this pregnancy but now the sickness has come with a vengence its really bad!! home birth would be too odd like for 1 we live in a flat and the walls are really thin so besides the fact that everyone could hear me i would be too scared that something would go wrong!! a friend of m ine is overdue at the moment and king george sent her to queens as apparently there are so few midwifes there and hardly no one is there most are being sent to queens.. so that has scared me a bit i think i'll ask to be transfered to queens now!! I'm actually thinking of leaving work because i left my other job just b4 x-mas and now i don't qualify for maternity leave as i have only been in my current job for a month but it is getting too much if i had stayed in my other job i would have been entitled to mat leave and also days off due to sickness but new job very stressfull and have not got rights as i have not been there very long atall!!!
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