The 2ww madness has started
Hello
Just to share as I know how lovely you girls are and so good with the PMA. I am now a whole 4 days after ET and the madness has started. I thought it was all going too well and was having far too much of a nice time on my 2ww watching movies and having hubby waiting hand and foot on me but today is different....today I am having major panics that I can feel AF type pains and am already on knicker alert!!
Does this phase pass or does it just get worse as I go along??? i'm still enjoying my week off work but going slightly crazy.
Mummya how are you doing? How is your sanity holding up??
xx
Just to share as I know how lovely you girls are and so good with the PMA. I am now a whole 4 days after ET and the madness has started. I thought it was all going too well and was having far too much of a nice time on my 2ww watching movies and having hubby waiting hand and foot on me but today is different....today I am having major panics that I can feel AF type pains and am already on knicker alert!!
Does this phase pass or does it just get worse as I go along??? i'm still enjoying my week off work but going slightly crazy.
Mummya how are you doing? How is your sanity holding up??
xx
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It's very hard! I had a bit of a meltdown on egg transfer day I was upset for days very negative and it was awful: I even smoked one day only two tho!! ( I know this sounds funny but the second week I was admitted to hospital with severe ohss so I couldn't really think about the next week!!
Soo many people I spoke to went through the same after et !
Try and fill up your week off, and youl look back and think that went fast!!! I really really hope you get your bfp Hun good luck got everything crossed for you!!! Xxx
Sanity What Sanity!!!!!!!
I am slowing going mad trying to be positive but convncing myself it hasn't worked. It was hubbys birthday yesterday and that was the only day that quickly all the other days are dragging don't get me wrong i'm enjoying the rest.
When are you planning to test?
I have no cramps or anything
Annette
Gemlou, how are you? Reading your experiences of OHSS have been very educational. The clinic stopped my last cycle of IVF because the risk of me getting this was high and I was pretty frustrated at the time but now I can see why they did!
Annette, glad you had a good day yesterday. I am actually back to work Tues, Wed and thurs next week so this will keep me busy I guess. Not ideal but will have to try and keep the stress levels down. Assuming nothing terrible happens in the mean time I will probably test next weekend/ Friday when work is all finished for the week! How about you?
xx
I tested I am only 6 days after a 3 day transfer obviously it was BFN. I don't know what I was hoping for I feel so negative at the min i think i was just hoping for a little faint line.
Please tell me i'm not alone and there's still chance it could change to a positive
Anne thanks for your vote of confidence hun. Glad you are well xxxx
Glad it went well for you il keep looking at your posts xxx
thinking of you both. i had and still have got period type cramps on and off and i have been reasured its normal. what dates have the clinic given you for testing?
This is what happens in a 2 day transfer:
1dpt...Embryo is growing and developing
2dpt...Embryo is growing and developing
3dpt... Embryo is now a blastocyst
4dpt....Blastocyst hatches out of shell on this day
5dpt.. Blastocyst attaches to a site on the uterine lining
6dpt.. Implantation begins,as the blastocyst begins to bury in the lining
7dpt.. Implantation process continues and morula buries deeper in the lining
8dpt.. Morula is completely implanted in the lining and has placenta cells & foetal cells
9dpt...Placenta cells begin to secret HCG in the blood
10dpt...More HCG is produced as foetus develops
11dpt...More HCG is produced as foetus develops
12dpt...HCG levels are now high enough to be immediately detected on HPT
This is what happens in a 3 day transfer:
1dpt...Embryo is growing and developing
2dpt... Embryo is now a blastocyst
3dpt....Blastocyst hatches out of shell on this day
4dpt.. Blastocyst attaches to a site on the uterine lining
5dpt.. Implantation begins,as the blastocyst begins to bury in the lining
6dpt.. Implantation process continues and morula buries deeper in the lining
7dpt.. Morula is completely implanted in the lining and has placenta cells & foetal cells
8dpt...Placenta cells begin to secret HCG in the blood
9dpt...More HCG is produced as foetus develops
10dpt...More HCG is produced as foetus develops
11dpt...HCG levels are now high enough to be immediately detected on HPT
This is what happens in a 5 day transfer (blasts):
1dpt....Blastocyst hatches out of shell on this day
2dpt.. Blastocyst attaches to a site on the uterine lining
3dpt.. Implantation begins,as the blastocyst begins to bury in the lining
4dpt.. Implantation process continues and morula buries deeper in the lining
5dpt.. Morula is completely implanted in the lining and has placenta cells & foetal cells
6dpt...Placenta cells begin to secret HCG in the blood
7dpt...More HCG is produced as foetus develops
8dpt...More HCG is produced as foetus develops
9dpt...HCG levels are now high enough to be immediately detected on HPT
keeping everything crossed!
evie xx
Debbie thank you for finding that on fertility friends i burst into tears on hubby today after being a cow all weekend and told him i tested i am praying its going to change to positive.I think i have beeen get twinges in tummy but not cramps so not sure if i'm imaging it!!!!
How are you coping?
xxxx
try this, it helps. lie down flat somewhere dark and quiet and warm.close your eyes and breathe in and hold for 5 sec then release for 5 sec. breathe from your diaphram not your chest. picture all negative thoughts coming up from your feet to your head when breathing in and visualise them going back out down your body out through your feet when you breathe out repeat several times then lie still for a few mins.
It really helps you relax and focus your mind xx