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waiting after a c section
i was told by the staff at hospital to wait at least a year if not 2 before 5trying for another baby so that the wound is completely healed. my mate just had a c section and when she spoke to the doctor he saaid that she only needed to wait 6 months. does anyone know how long it is best to wait. i also would like a vbac if i can so not sure if that wiould make a difference
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My mum got pregnant with my sister 8 months after having a caesarean with me, everything was fine but she was advised to have another section (nothing to do with the time gap between the births, it was due to a back problem and my sister was expected to be big though she was only 7lb 12 in the end!). My boyfriend's mum had an emergency c section for her second baby (she'd had natural birth for the first), got pregnant with her third just 5 months after and had a VBAC so it can be done. I think they advise the time gap as an approximation but don't matter so much if it is closer together, they will just keep an eye on you I think. xx
I have to comment on how much more tired I am this time round and my back is much more uncomfortable because I have a little one to chase after. I have had to start my maternity leave much earlier this time as a result. This may be something for you to consider. If you have help at home you will probably be fine but my husband works away and I can't expect my sister and parents to rearrange their lives for us.
Good luck with what ever you decide. Denise xxx
But, I've also heard to wait 6 months.
Honestly, I think it's all a matter of doctors opinions, and whether or not YOUR body can take it, everyones body is different..
My husband and I have a friend who got pregnant ONE month after giving birth, and the baby, and the mother were both fine. Now a days, anything is possible.
Just don't do what I did. When people would ask "oh is this your first baby?" I'd respond with "yes, and my last." And litterally, one year later...to the DATE, I was pregnant again. I seriously though if we were to have other kids, it would be a dog....
Going to have a second c section.. I couldn't imagine having vaginal. Those women are tough!