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I had an epidural during my labour and as i'd been in early labour all day before anything got really going it was nice to have a break from the pain, i had a mobile epidural so i could walk-although not without help still. i remember sitting in hospital looking at the monitor saying "ooh look, i'm having a really strong contraction!" i was able to get some sleep and only felt weak pain as the time came for it to be topped up. I was also still allowed home the next day.
However, i was restricted to how i could move about as i had to be monitored more closely, i think my labour was longer as a result and my babys heart rate began dropping too. I had to have help using the toilet and i wasnt allowed to give birth in a more upright position as i'd wanted. I think by having the epidural i lost my say in how i wanted my labour to go. I even had to ask my partner when topush as i couldnt feel myself, which felt unnatural. i think next time i would rather try other forms of pain releif where i'm more in control, although if it was bad i would have one again but more as a last resort. That was just my experiance, i think you need to weigh up the pro's and cons x
However, i was restricted to how i could move about as i had to be monitored more closely, i think my labour was longer as a result and my babys heart rate began dropping too. I had to have help using the toilet and i wasnt allowed to give birth in a more upright position as i'd wanted. I think by having the epidural i lost my say in how i wanted my labour to go. I even had to ask my partner when topush as i couldnt feel myself, which felt unnatural. i think next time i would rather try other forms of pain releif where i'm more in control, although if it was bad i would have one again but more as a last resort. That was just my experiance, i think you need to weigh up the pro's and cons x
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However, when it was working it was fab. I had serious regular contractions and couldn't feel a thing! And following on from mummyx5, the gas and air was lovely stuff while it worked too, but it wasn't effective for very long with me!
all the best whatever you decide - just play it by ear on the day as often birth plans don't get sticked too and can change. chelle x
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The relief was immense and, because the pain was relieved, I could concentrate on pushing more effectively. I'm not saying everyone should have one, or that it is right for every labour but, it worked for me!
my 3rd i had already had gas and air, and pethidine and these didn't touch the pain so i requested an epidural, the only thing was it slowed down my contractions, and resulted in baby getting distressed, i had to have emergency section in end (but i was only 35 weeks, so their concern was a prem baby not being able to cope).
talk it through with your midwife and see what she recomends