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Getting annoyed!
Hello girls!
My names louise, and me and my fiance have been trying for a baby for nearly 3 years. Its rough going to be honest and so upsetting when you see your period breaks my heart
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Another thing that annoys me is all these other women getting pregnant that dont even want a child in the first place, i just always think 'when is it my turn?'.
Trying to keep positive but it is very hard, beginning to think that it will never happen Any advice?
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My names louise, and me and my fiance have been trying for a baby for nearly 3 years. Its rough going to be honest and so upsetting when you see your period breaks my heart
.Another thing that annoys me is all these other women getting pregnant that dont even want a child in the first place, i just always think 'when is it my turn?'.
Trying to keep positive but it is very hard, beginning to think that it will never happen
Any advice?xx
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I know what you mean about people who aren't trying and don't even want a baby seem to fall accidentally and people like ourselves for some reason struggle!! I dont understand it either!
But my first bit of advice would be to go to the docs hunny as its been 3 years they will defo start looking into things for you.
Good luck hun
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You sound like you have a great outlook on life, and don't beat yourself up for getting annoyed and bitter occasionally- we all do. I had a little cry at some idiot with a lovely baby at work yesterday. More excited about the new puppy than her crying baby. Breaks your heart. Thats one of the things that really pulls at my heart strings, when I hear babies crying.
But I agree that you should seek some help from your GP. It might be something really simple that is getting in the way of your baby dream. But keep your positive outlook and enjoy your hubby-to-be while you have him all to yourself!
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Ive been to the doctors and had all my tests and everything is fine and my fiance is fine aswell thats why we are still abit confused. They dont seem to want to put me onto anything that will help like colmid or anything its so fustrating! But people dont care do they? They pretend they do but im pretty sure they dont.
It is really horrible i hate it, ive been really depressed over it aswell and starting to lose hope to be honest. My fiances sister has just had a baby aswell witch doesnt really help the matter as i try and stay away from her, its starting to effect my whole life. I find myself staring at womens bumps longing for one.
I guess theres always IVF but it costs and you cant have it till your 23 its just a pain in the arse that someone that struggles to conceive has to pay thousands to get a child really annoys me.
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im nearly 25 not used contraception for about 5 years and NOTHING!
had lap and dye and its clear and fine and no matter what me and fiance do it seems pointless, got another app with consultant in june and i jusr pray every month it will happen and NOTHING....its so heartbreaking
I just dont no what to do anymore. Im taking so many vitimins for it even that evening primrose oil is spose to help make the cervical mucus more fertile and you take it untill you ovulate so last month was my first month on it so just waiting now. And next year im going to try reflexology aswell theres loads of success stories on that.
xx