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HOW DO U COPE?
MORNING ALL, WELL IM JUST WONDERING HOW YOU ALL KEEP SANE WITH THE NEWS OF OTHER PEOPLES PREGNANCYS? MY SIL IS ABOUT TO GIVE BIRTH WHICH I HAVE GT USED TO (EVENTUALLY) BUT NOW HAVE HAD THE NEWS THAT HUBBYS BROTHERS GF OF LESS THAN A YEAR IS PREGNANT. I FEEL SO AWFULL FOR NOT BEING HAPPY.I JUST FEEL SO BROKEN HEARTED (WITHOUT SOUNDING PATHETIC) I JUST FIND IT REALLY HARD TO DEAL WITH IT. ANY TIPS ON HOW TO DEAL WITH IT?
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So, in short (!!!!!) I spend a lot of time coming up with reasons why I would not want their situation or why I am right to act like I do!!! Whatever, my reaction is always right and I can hold my head up high!!!! Self preservation!
me and hubby on month 15 of TTC
and I seem to know lots of pregnant people ! ( Great NOT )
some of who were not even with there partner when we started TTC - and they all seem to have caught straight away !
I have some good days and some bad days - depends how hormonal I am
I just have to look on the bright sde that I am very lucky in all other aspects of my life and thsi will happen when its meant too ! ( it had better happen soon)
I find it hard to be either totally un interested or not too interested so i give the game away that I wish it was me ! AS MY FACE GIVES ME AWAY USUALLY
Its very hard and I hate feeling like this !
http://www.999reasonstolaugh.com/
My favourite one relates to what you think when you see twins
A friend of mine who isn't in the best of relationships, thought telling me she was 5 weeks pregnant as i told her i had just mc at 5 weeks!! So that was hard seeing her at the stages i would have been. And her baby is now 6 months old!!
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